#1. Listen unconditionally, non-judgmentally.
#2. Set up a code word to signal an emergency.
#3. Help them seek job opportunities.
#4. Refer to counseling or expert guidance.
#5. Take abuse seriously, believe the victim.
#6. Let the victim make his/her own decisions.
#7. Open home or other location as a safe haven.
#8. Create a safety plan.
#9. Hire an attorney or attain legal assistance.
#10. Create a safety bag of essentials.
#11. Arrange or provide transportation.
#12. Rebuild self-esteem and confidence.
#13. Ask what you can do to help.
#14. Offer plans and options in case of an emergency.
#15. Find or call a domestic violence program or shelter.
#16. Provide financial support.
#17. Accompany to court proceedings.
#18.Recommend reading materials and resources.
#19. Ask questions that allow victim to consider and anticipate future.
#20. Assist in obtaining a protection order.
#21. Provide assurance, “You don’t deserve this,” This is not your fault,” and “I believe you.”
#22. Watch pets while victim is in transition.
#23. Serve as a witness.
#24. Help victim recognize abuse.
#25. Continue to support victim after they leave.
By: domesticshelters.org