Generated by All in One SEO v4.9.7.2, this is an llms.txt file, used by LLMs to index the site. # Bright Horizons Free and Confidential Abuse Support in Nebraska ## Sitemaps - [XML Sitemap](https://brighthorizonsne.org/sitemap.xml): Contains all public & indexable URLs for this website. ## Posts - [Nebraska’s Domestic Abuse Death Review Team Releases 2025 Annual Report](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2025/08/nebraskas-domestic-abuse-death-review-team-releases-2025-annual-report/) - On August 15, 2025, the Nebraska Attorney General’s Office released the 2025 Annual Report of the Domestic Abuse Death Review Team (DADRT). This report examines domestic violence deaths across Nebraska with the goal of improving survivor safety and preventing future tragedies. Since the law creating the Review Team went into effect in July 2022, 72 - [1 year Anniversary of Escaping DV Poems by Jena](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2024/12/1-year-anniversary-of-escaping-dv-poems-by-jena/) - In this stirring and deeply personal work, Jena—a courageous survivor of domestic violence—shares her powerful journey from victim to victor. This poem, published in part within our 2024 annual report, lays bare the raw, unfiltered reality of her experience while illuminating her indomitable spirit. Through vivid, unflinching imagery and heartfelt expression, Jena’s words chronicle the - [2022 Annual Report](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2023/01/2022-annual-report/) - 2022 Annual Report (15) - [Support Group](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2022/07/support-group-4/) - Assertiveness Skills https://www.womenscenteryfs.org/index.php/get-info/prevention/education/13-assertiveness-skills Assertive behavior involves the ability to express your feelings, to choose your behavior in any given situation, to exercise your rights when it is appropriate without denying the rights of others, to disagree when it’s important to do so, and, if appropriate, to change your own behavior or ask others to change - [Support Group](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2022/06/support-group-3/) - The Benefits And Importance Of A Support System https://highlandspringsclinic.org/the-benefits-and-importance-of-a-support-system/ What Does It Mean To Have A Support System? The definition of a support system is that you have a network of people that can provide you with practical or emotional support. These support systems will help you improve your overall health and have been - [Support Group](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2022/06/support-group-2/) - How to Set Family Boundaries: A Therapist’s Guide https://www.talkspace.com/blog/family-boundaries/ Families can be tricky. They’re always there, you don’t get to choose them, and they can be the best, or the most challenging, parts of your life. Sometimes they’re both. Familial relationships can be difficult to navigate, especially if a relationship is overbearing, unhealthy, or - [Support Group](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2022/05/support-group/) - DV Survivors and Self-Doubt: Am I Doing the Right Thing? How questioning yourself makes it harder to escape domestic violence https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/escaping-violence/dv-survivors-and-self-doubt-am-i-doing-the-right-thing Thanks to social and cultural influences, many women have long been conditioned to feel like they should be polite and quiet and put up with life’s difficulties, no matter what the circumstances. - [Healthy Relationships ~ Let's Talk about it!](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2022/02/healthy-relationships-lets-talk-about-it/) - Let’s talk about healthy relationships. Healthy relationships go beyond candy hearts, flowers, and chocolate. Healthy relationships go beyond single acts of kindness and cute social media posts on one day of the year. They involve work and commitment each day. Read through our list to learn a bit about what a healthy relationship looks - [Decisions, Decisions](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2022/02/decisions-decisions/) - by Heather, a loveisrespect advocate, www.loveisrespect.org We all make many decisions every day. Some are fairly easy, like what to eat or wear. Some decisions can affect other people, like how fast we choose to drive. And for some decisions (like whether you’re ready for sex, if going to college is the right choice for - [Bright Horizons 2020 Annual Report](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2021/05/bright-horizons-2020-annual-report/) - Bright Horizons 2020 Annual Report - [What Causes Relationship Anxiety?](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2022/02/what-causes-relationship-anxiety/) - What Causes Relationship Anxiety? Put simply, falling in love challenges us in numerous ways we don’t expect. The more we value someone else, the more we stand to lose. On many levels, both conscious and unconscious, we become scared of being hurt. To a certain degree, we all possess a fear of intimacy. Ironically, this - [Bright Horizons 2021 Annual Report](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2022/01/bright-horizons-2021-annual-report/) - Bright Horizons 2021 Annual Report - [Support Group with Kathryn ~ When the Feelings Rush Back](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2021/06/support-group-with-kathryn-when-the-feelings-rush-back/) - When the Feelings Rush Back Triggers domestic violence survivors face, and how to get through them https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/taking-care-of-you/when-the-feelings-rush-back A survivor might be able to escape a violent partner. But they may experience traumatic stress afterward, including triggers, or unsettling sensory reminders of previous trauma. “A trigger is some form of stimuli that would precipitate a recollection from - [Support Group with Kathryn ~ Conflict can happen when family members have different views or beliefs that clash](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2021/05/support-group-with-kathryn-conflict-can-happen-when-family-members-have-different-views-or-beliefs-that-clash/) - Conflict can happen when family members have different views or beliefs that clash. Sometimes conflict can occur when people misunderstand each other and jump to the wrong conclusion. Issues of conflict that are not resolved peacefully can lead to arguments and resentment. It is normal to disagree with each other from time to time. Occasional - [Support Group with Kathryn ~ Finding Peace](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2021/05/support-group-with-kathryn-finding-peace/) - 5 Tips from a Psychologist on Finding Peace In Chaos (When It Feels Like The World Is Falling Apart) https://www.exploringtherapy.com/therapy-blog/5-tips-from-a-psychologist-on-finding-peace-in-chaos Global pandemics, social injustice, the climate crisis, and now, terrorists attacking The Capitol? I know it can feel like the world is getting worse and worse each day. Finding peace in chaos seems like a - [No doesn’t mean convince me](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2021/05/no-doesnt-mean-convince-me/) - No doesn’t mean convince me! April is Sexual Assault Awareness month and during this month we have been extremely busy raising awareness about sexual assault and consent. Two of the major awareness campaigns that take place during April are Denim Days and What Were You Wearing displays. Throughout April Tyson fresh meats and local libraries - [Support Group with Kathryn ~ What exactly do healthy boundaries look like?](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2021/04/support-group-with-kathryn-what-exactly-do-healthy-boundaries-look-like/) - What exactly do healthy boundaries look like? By: Eleanor Beeslaar https://healthyrelationshipsinitiative.org/healthy-vs-unhealthy- boundaries/#:~:text=Unhealthy%20boundaries%20involve%20a%20disregard,wants%2C%20needs%2C %20and%20limits.&text=Here%20are%20some%20examples%20of,when%20others%20say%20%E2%80 %9Cno.%E2%80%9D Healthy boundaries are a key element in your physical, mental, and emotional health. They look different for each person and relationship, and they may change over time. Healthy boundaries are also bidirectional; they involve communicating your wants and needs in - [Victim blaming](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2021/04/victim-blaming/) - Preventing and ending sexual violence requires societal change, and much of this change has to be intentional! We have to look closely at widely-held societal and cultural beliefs that support violence and reinforce victim-blaming. The first step to creating change is to alter our internal thought process when we hear about violence. Start by - [Support Group with Kathryn ~ What It Means To Be Happy With Yourself](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2021/04/support-group-with-kathryn-what-it-means-to-be-happy-with-yourself/) - What It Means To Be Happy With Yourself As cliche as it sounds, happiness comes from within. So what does it mean to be happy with yourself? By Rania Naim April 30, 2020 Article reprinted from https://rebellove.com/relationships/what-it-means-to-be-happy-with-yourself There’s no one-size-fits-all when it comes to your happiness; there’s no manual either, but there are things you - [What I was Wearing](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2021/04/what-i-was-wearing/) - What were you wearing??? This question is often asked of survivors of sexual assault. This question perpetuates victim-blaming and calls into question the actions of the victims rather than the perpetrators. Bright Horizons and Community Libraries are providing a Powerful Visual Answer to The Question ‘What Were You Wearing?’ These displays prove that clothing - [7 Powerful Habits That Make You More Assertive Being assertive](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2021/03/7-powerful-habits-that-make-you-more-assertive-being-assertive/) - 7 Powerful Habits That Make You More Assertive Being assertive and knowing what you want is not the same as being hostile or belligerent. You just have to know what to say with confidence. BY LOLLY DASKAL@LOLLYDASKAL https://www.inc.com/lolly-daskal/7-powerful-habits-that-make-you-more-assertive.html Everyone wants to be more confident, but not everyone knows how to be assertive. Assertive falls right - [Reaching out to our youth about bullying](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2021/03/reaching-out-to-our-youth-about-bullying/) - Bullying It is a word we hear often and most times it brings up negative feelings. But knowing how bullying makes us feel and being able to identify it after it happens is sometimes a challenge. Especially in teens. Knowing what it means to be bullied, and what it means to be a bully are - [Support Group with Kathryn ~ What is Financial Abuse?](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2021/03/support-group-with-kathryn-v/) - What is Financial Abuse? These Are the Signs… This article is from https://www.joinonelove.org/learn/what-is-financial-abuse-these-are-the-signs/ When we talk about relationship abuse, we typically focus on physical and emotional mistreatment. But financial abuse or the control of one’s ability to acquire, use and maintain money by an intimate partner occurs in up to 99 percent of domestic violence cases. So, why - [Financial Abuse](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2021/03/financial-abuse/) - What is Financial Abuse? Financial abuse involves controlling a victim's ability to acquire, use, and maintain financial resources. Those who are victimized financially may be prevented from working. They also may have their own money restricted or stolen by the abuser. And rarely do they have complete access to money and other resources. - [NO MORE WEEK 2021 WAS MARCH 7 - 13!](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2021/03/no-more-week-2021-was-march-7-13/) - NO MORE WEEK 2021 WAS MARCH 7 - 13! NO MORE’s eighth annual NO MORE Week was March 7-13, 2021. What is No More? No More is a unifying symbol and movement to raise public awareness and to engage bystanders around ending Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault. Silence and a lack of knowledge play - [How to Help Your Teen Set Boundaries in Their Relationships](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2021/02/how-to-help-your-teen-set-boundaries-in-their-relationships/) - Learning how to develop healthy relationships begins early in life. As teens begin to date and develop relationships, they may encounter situations they do not know how to handle. Sexual violence and abuse are common in relationships among teens. Approximately one in three high school students will be involved in abusive relationships. Middle - [Expressing Gratitude to Law Enforcement](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2021/01/expressing-gratitude-to-law-enforcement/) - To kick our year off, we wanted to express our gratitude to the men and women in Law Enforcement who are dedicated to keeping our communities safe. Each year we are sent referrals from various law enforcement agencies for clients who are in need of our agency’s services. Law enforcement officers are the first responders - [MYTH: Human Trafficking is only Sex Trafficking](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2021/01/myth-human-trafficking-is-only-sex-trafficking/) - Graphic Courtesy of Polaris Project When you think of human trafficking, what comes to mind? For many, it's synonymous with the sale of humans for sexual exploitation. And while sex trafficking certainly is a type of human trafficking, it isn't the only type. Human trafficking is a complex issue spanning sexual exploitation to debt - [Flashbacks](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2021/01/flashbacks/) - Flashbacks are intrusive, difficult to deal with, and unwanted! They are usually repetitive, vivid, and can severely impact your day, your emotional health, and even your physical well-being. Regardless of whether they occur during the day or at night, there are things you can do to manage your flashbacks. The first thing you need to - [Support Group with Kathryn: 9 Rules for Moving on After a Breakup](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2021/01/support-group-with-kathryn-9-rules-for-moving-on-after-a-breakup/) - The following article was discussed at last night's support group. The original article can be found at https://www.realsimple.com/work-life/family/relationships/how-to-move-on-after-breakup There’s no way around it: The end of a relationship is the worst. It’s hard, it’s emotionally draining, it’s stressful and, well, it’s heartbreaking. When you’re in the middle of crying fits, anxiety spells, and endless texts - [Support Group with Kathryn: How to Recognize and Break Traumatic Bonds](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2021/01/support-group-with-kathryn-how-to-recognize-and-break-traumatic-bonds/) - Article reposted from: https://www.healthline.com/health/mental-health/trauma-bonding#breaking-them Signs of a traumatic bond Trauma bonds can look a little different depending on the type of relationship, but they tend to have two main characteristics. A cyclical nature First, they depend on intermittent reinforcement. In other words, a cycle of abuse. It’s generally easier to leave a situation that’s entirely - [Support Group with Kathryn: 5 Ways to Rebuild And Love Yourself After An Emotionally Abusive Relationship by Sophia Stephens](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2021/01/support-group-with-kathryn-5-ways-to-rebuild-and-love-yourself-after-an-emotionally-abusive-relationship-by-sophia-stephens/) - If I could describe the impact and aftermath of emotional abuse in one word, it would be invisible. Emotional abuse may leave no physical marks, but the depth of the scars and the weight of the pain creates a burden that people can’t see—or don’t want to. According to Psychology Today’s Andrea Matthews, emotionally abusive tactics include constant - [STALKING: KNOW IT! NAME IT! STOP IT](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2021/01/stalking-know-it-name-it-stop-it/) - We’ve all seen what stalking looks like in the movies. Crazy … star stuck … obsessive ... A person who creeps on and is obsessive in their interest in another person. Often it is depicted as someone who is a stranger, someone the victim isn’t even aware of. While approximately 23% of the time - [How to Cope with Survivor’s Guilt](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/12/how-to-cope-with-survivors-guilt/) - By Jenn Rockefeller https://breakthesilencedv.org/how-to-cope-with-survivors-guilt/ You are free and clear. You are not with the abuser anymore. You can live your life free of abuse, pain, shame, and a host of other things. Yet, you feel an overwhelming sense of guilt. Why? Some domestic violence survivors may face what is called survivor’s guilt. They may be - [October Happenings at Bright Horizons](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/11/october-happenings-at-bright-horizons/) - October is Domestic Violence Awareness month. A month dedicated to education, support, and empowerment. Domestic Violence is a devastating reality that many women and men live with every day. At Bright Horizons we are committed to ending Domestic Violence. During October all 3 of our offices dedicated a lot of time to raise awareness of - [Bright Horizons Support Group-Depression](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/11/bright-horizons-support-group-depression/) - Depression Women in abusive relationships often experience depression Depression appears to occur two times more frequently in women than men Depression is categorized by ongoing sense of hopelessness Depression is a widespread problem that can be treated Depression can be seen as a gift There are so many ways that depression can be - [7 Steps of Healing from Domestic Violence](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/10/7-steps-of-healing-from-domestic-violence/) - Each person who has been affected by domestic violence or sexual assault will go through various steps of healing. We would like to talk about those steps and provide information on the seven steps of healing from domestic violence and sexual assault. Safety First Safety just means that the victim has the means to get - [Children and Domestic Violence](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/10/children-and-domestic-violence/) - https://www.nctsn.org/sites/default/files/resources/children_domestic_violence_managing_challenging_behaviors.pdf Children who live with domestic violence often react to it with changes in how they behave. They may have trouble controlling their feelings, and will act in ways that make life even harder for the family. Some common changes are tantrums, aggressive behavior, and sleep problems. Children might also stop following directions - [Gaslighting](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/10/gaslighting/) - Gaslighting ... If you have spent much time on social media, chances are you have likely heard this term. It has recently become very popular and, unfortunately, it is sometimes misused. The term gaslighting comes from the 1940’s film “Gaslight”. Gaslighting is more than just lying or attempting to deceive someone. It is much more - [Staying safe on campus](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/09/staying-safe-on-campus/) - Each year, institutions of higher education recognize September as Campus Safety Awareness Month. With students’ becoming acclimated to campuses across the country, September is the perfect time to emphasize ways to keep students safe while on campus. Consider the following checklist a starting point for campus safety: Stay vigilant. This can’t be stressed enough - [WHAT IS AN ADCOCATE?](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/09/what-is-an-adcocate/) - It seems so simple, just reach out to someone who can help. The difficult thing is reaching out when you feel so alone! Alone - is how many, who have suffered abuse at the hands of someone who claims to love them, feel. Alone - because they have been told that no one will - [Ainsworth Back to School BBQ](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/09/ainsworth-back-to-school-bbq/) - Bright Horizons joined the fun at the Back-to-school BBQ in Ainsworth. Lots of kids stopped by to pick up bullying backpacks, to play the game and to take a pledge to not hurt themselves, or others, with their words or hands! We also handed out information for teens and healthy relationships. Remember Healthy Relationships are - [O'Neill Back to School Bash](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/08/oneill-back-to-school-bash/) - Kerry and Amanda from Bright Horizons in O’Neill participated in the Back to School Bash. Blocks of the main street were closed off for the festivities. In front of our office, we handed out anti-bullying items to returning students. Also, participants were asked to take a pledge to not hurt others with their words or - [Shout Out!](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/08/shout-out/) - We would like to send a big thank you to Deputy Sandra Waller and the York County Sheriff’s Office for the wonderful donation of hygiene products, non-perishable food items, and cleaning supplies. Deputy Waller organized the 1st Annual Donation Drive to collect supplies for domestic violence programs and delivered them to agencies in the - [LOVING SOMEONE IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/08/loving-someone-in-a-abusive-relationship/) - Domestic violence is many things but what it is not is “None of your business”! Communities, families, society have to STOP ignoring domestic violence. We have to stop pretending it is not our problem. Domestic Violence is WRONG! We have to stop treating it as a personal issue, a family issue, or a women’s issue and - [I’VE REACHED OUT FOR HELP AND NO ONE WILL BELIEVE ME. I LOOK LIKE THE CRAZY ONE.](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/08/ive-reached-out-for-help-and-no-one-will-believe-me-i-look-like-the-crazy-one/) - Not being believed is probably one of the most painful positions to find yourself in, and one that needs safe and corrective attention, and as soon as possible. You cannot heal in isolation; even if you’ve tried without success up until now to find the help you need, please look further in these pages - [VIRTUAL RUN/WALK/BIKE/Etc. 3.16 Miles in memory of Hailey and All Victims of Domestic Violence.](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/07/virtual-run-walk-bike-etc-3-16-miles-in-memory-of-hailey-and-all-victims-of-domestic-violence/) - VIRTUAL RUN/WALK/BIKE/Etc. 3.16 Miles in memory of Hailey and All Victims of Domestic Violence. For all the runners, joggers, walkers, bikers, etc. here is what we can do to raise awareness and funds for ending domestic violence and to show our support for Hailey’s son and family. Please walk/jog/run/bike/etc. at your favorite place. Our community - [Mending a Broken Heart Healing after Abuse](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/07/mending-a-broken-heart-healing-after-abuse/) - Breakups are hard! They take their toll on everyone just a bit differently but almost all of us can relate to the pain of a broken heart. Moving on can be very challenging, regardless of how long you were with someone. When abuse and trauma are added to the mix it may seem impossible to - [A Call to Men](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/07/a-call-to-men/) - One nonprofit aims to redefine manhood in order to end domestic violence Tony Porter, co-founder of the nonprofit A Call to Men, believes ending violence against women starts by redefining what it means to be a man. In his moving 2010 TED Talk, Porter describes a time when he caught himself telling his sobbing five-year-old son to - [Nebraska Domestic Violence Help, Programs and Statistics](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/07/nebraska-domestic-violence-help-programs-and-statistics/) - There are 33 organizations in Nebraska that provide domestic violence services at some level. A total of 33 organizations have provided complete information about their program to this site for a statewide completion rate of 100%. These programs can be found in 25 different cities. Click on any of the 25 cities below to learn - [Bright Horizons Board Update](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/07/bright-horizons-board-update/) - It is with gratitude we say goodbye to 3 of our treasured board members. In June 2020, Board members Lori Lee, Ben McBride and Stephanie Brundieck completed two, three year terms as volunteer board members. Their contributions to our mission of serving survivors of domestic violence and sexual assault have been a true blessing. You - [Stop Pretending You Know What an Abuser Looks Like](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/07/stop-pretending-you-know-what-an-abuser-looks-like/) - How the culture oversimplifies abuse to everyone's detriment. Source: wavebreakmedia/Shutterstock If real life were more like a movie — which it isn’t — then all the bad guys would be wearing black hats and the good guys white ones, and the wicked witches would have green skin and a cackle, and the good witches would - [What If You Pursued Contentment Rather Than Happiness?](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/07/what-if-you-pursued-contentment-rather-than-happiness/) - https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/what_if_you_pursued_contentment_rather_than_happiness Contentment—the knowledge that things are OK exactly as they are, right now—is highly valued by many cultures. Steps to finding Contentment rather than Happiness: Practice mindfulness. The first one may not surprise you, because everyone from doctors to athletes to Oprah has endorsed it over the past few decades. Mindfulness is the cultivation - [Project Homeless Connect-Norfolk](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/06/project-homeless-connect-norfolk/) - The 4th Annual Project Homeless Connect Norfolk has been rescheduled to Friday, October 9th, 2020, due to COVID-19. We are excited to still be able to offer this BIG event to hundreds of people in need. Multiple service providers will be on-site to provide a wide variety of immediate services for free. But, we need more - [Why Do Abusers Abuse?](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/06/why-do-abusers-abuse/) - Why Do Abusers Abuse? Understanding why abusers abuse, and the predicative indicators of violence. Aug 04, 2017 By domesticshelters.org 23 shares 5.7k have read VIEW TOOLKIT If you find yourself with an abusive partner, it is not uncommon to wonder: why are they choosing to behave and act as they do? There is no - [12 Things Everyone Can Do to Prevent Elder Abuse](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/06/12-things-everyone-can-do-to-prevent-elder-abuse/) - Our communities are like buildings that support people’s well being. Sturdy buildings ensure that people are safe and thriving at every age. We all have a part to play in this construction project. Here are 12 things everyone can do to build community supports and prevent elder abuse. Learn the signs of elder abuse and - [Strangulation Can Leave Long-Lasting Injuries](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/05/strangulation-can-leave-long-lasting-injuries/) - The power of controlling a victim’s next breath makes strangulation a frequent tactic for abusers. It can take less than 10 seconds for a person to lose consciousness as a result of strangulation, and death can occur in just under five minutes. According to the Training Institute on Strangulation Prevention, nearly four in five victims of strangulation are - [May is Mental Health Awareness Month](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/05/may-is-mental-health-awareness-month/) - Mental Health Awareness management tips for well being during COVID-19 and beyond: 1. Maintain connections to others 2. Be compassionate with yourself and others 3. "Routine is your friend." Routine helps to manage anxiety and will help to let you adapt more quickly to current reality. - [Norfolk Area Big Give - May 19th, 2020](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/05/norfolk-area-big-give-may-19th-2020/) - ONE WEEK AWAY! Will you help make a difference locally? Norfolk Area Big Give is a 24-hour period of giving where Norfolk area supporters are invited to give back to their favorite local charities and educate themselves on other non-profits in our community. The goal of this community-wide giving event is to match Norfolk area - [Talk to an Expert Support for Suvivors](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/03/talk-to-an-expert-support-for-suvivors/) - If you missed this call. Click to listen - [When Money Becomes a Form of Power and Control](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/04/when-money-becomes-a-form-of-power-and-control/) - Imagine getting an allowance when you were a young kid. Maybe you’d get a dollar or two every week — you’d hide it away to save up for something big, or you’d feverishly rush to the store and spend it all at once and quickly fall into sugar shock from your candy purchases. Now - [20 Ways Manipulative Narcissists Silence You: Part I](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/05/20-ways-manipulative-narcissists-silence-you-part-i/) - Learn the ways some abusers with mental illness negate responsibility for their choices Toxic people such as malignant narcissists, psychopaths and those with antisocial traits engage in maladaptive behaviors in relationships that ultimately exploit, demean and hurt their intimate partners, family members and friends. They use a plethora of diversionary tactics that distort the reality of their victims and deflect - [Healing from Sexual Violence: How Friends and Family Can Help](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/04/healing-from-sexual-violence-how-friends-and-family-can-help/) - Every 73 seconds, someone is sexually assaulted in the U.S., which means it’s likely that you or someone you know has experienced sexual violence. Talking about sexual assault is hard. For many survivors, the reaction of the first person they disclose to, often a friend or family member, can have a huge effect on their - [6 Ways You Can Support Survivors Online During Sexual Assault Awareness Month](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/04/6-ways-you-can-support-survivors-online-during-sexual-assault-awareness-month/) - Each of us has a survivor of sexual assault, harassment, or abuse in our lives. In some cases, we know someone identifies as a survivor because they have trusted us with this information. More commonly, we move through our lives and relationships alongside the unspoken reality of those who have experienced the trauma of sexual - [Talk to an Expert Support for Suvivors](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/03/4674/) - [COVID-19 UPDATE](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/03/covid-19-update/) - As we join in the community-wide effort to curtail the potential spread of COVID-19, Bright Horizons will be altering our services slightly. Beginning Monday March 23, we will no longer have our lobby open to drop ins and ask that our clients call to speak to an advocate or to set up an appointment. We - [Staying Safe During COVID-19](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/03/staying-safe-during-covid-19/) - Avoiding public spaces and working remotely can help to reduce the spread of COVID-19, but for many survivors, staying home may not be the safest option. We know that any external factors that add stress and financial strain can negatively impact survivors and create circumstances where their safety is further compromised. Abuse is about power - [Cancelation](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/03/cancelation/) - As a precautionary measure, we will be cancelling our support groups for the next two weeks - March 16th and March 23rd. This includes our English speaking group, our Spanish speaking group and our children's support group. We will continue to follow the recommendations of our public health department as we move forward. All other - [Tyson Gives Back](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/03/tyson-gives-back/) - Do you want to help Bright Horizons? Tyson says, We Want to Help You Give Back Giving Together allows you to donate directly to a wide variety of local and national nonprofit organizations You can donate to the causes you care about, and Tyson matches these contributions dollar for dollar up to $1,000 per - [Tyson Outreach Update](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/03/tyson-outreach-update/) - In April of 2018, Jessica and Yajaira, our bilingual advocates extended our outreach services to the ham line side of Tyson Fresh Meats. Jessica and Yajaira outreach on the ham side (in addition to the other departments) once a month. Each time an informational booth is set up for the Tyson team members. On average - [Wellness Wave](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/03/wellness-wave/) - Bright Horizons “Caught the Wellness Wave” on Saturday, February 29th. Antelope Memorial Hospital sponsored a health fair for the public at the American Legion Hall in Neligh. We are always excited to be able to set up a booth and present information. It was an awesome opportunity to display our outreach materials, fliers, tri-fold brochures - [9 Things People Don’t Realize You’re Doing Because You’ve Been Abused By A Narcissist](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2018/07/9-things-people-dont-realize-youre-doing-because-youve-been-abused-by-a-narcissist/) - `1. Constantly doubting your self-worth. Where once you were self-confident and assured, you are now in people-pleasing mode. Your friends and family notice that you are always on edge, doubting your strengths and experiences. You’re constantly explaining yourself, deflecting compliments or evading opportunities to shine. You obsess over whether you’re worthy, attractive, appealing or desirable enough. - [Knowledge of Oneself - Support Group with Jessica](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/03/knowledge-of-oneself-support-group-with-jessica/) - How do you get to know yourself? A while ago, a friend asked me what led me to start the inner journey to the self-consciousness and it was difficult to answer with a specific date or event. However, I then remembered the powerful influence of a small phrasing book, which was one of my first - [DENIM DAYS 2020](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/03/denim-days-2020/) - We would like to invite you to participate in this once a year fundraiser for a great cause. Denim Days 2020 is easy you wear jeans in the month of April! It’s a great incentive for staff. Employees pay a set amount to wear jeans on Fridays. In past years, several businesses got creative and - [NO MORE WEEK 2020, #CHANGEHAPPENSHERE](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/03/no-more-week-2020-changehappenshere/) - This NO MORE Week we are highlighting all of the places—literal and figurative—where change needs to happen and IS happening in order to create a world with NO MORE domestic and sexual violence. Each day, we’ll focus on different areas in which NO MORE and its partners are making a difference. We’ll share inspiring stories - [Effects Domestic Violence Has On Children and Youth - Break the Cycle with Felicia](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/03/effects-domestic-violence-has-on-children-and-youth-break-the-cycle-with-felicia/) - Felicia Rath, our campus advocate has had a recent opportunity to teach a healthy relationships class at the Juvenile Detention Center in Madison. She focuses on topics such as dating violence, domestic violence, sexual assault, consent, boundaries, and more. So far she has done 3 sessions and plans to do these presentations monthly and offers - [How to Identify Financial Abuse in a Relationship](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/03/how-to-identify-financial-abuse-in-a-relationship/) - When most people think of domestic abuse, the first thing that comes to mind is likely verbal abuse and physical assault. But research shows that financial abuse occurs just as frequently in unhealthy relationships as other forms of abuse. In fact, a study by the Centers for Financial Security found that 99% of domestic violence cases also involved financial - [You Have Rights - Support Group with Jessica](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/03/you-have-rights-support-group-with-jessica/) - Remember, all people in the U.S., regardless of immigration status, have rights under the U.S. Constitution and other laws. Make sure you know your rights if you are approached by police or ICE. You have the right to refuse consent for immigration or the police to search yourself, your car or your home. You - [Monday Night Support Group with Kathryn](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/03/monday-night-support-group-with-kathryn/) - English support group talked about coping strategies and red flags on Monday night. We all will find some type of red flag within a relationship and it can be early on in the relationship or later on. The key is how do we handle those red flags, is it something that you can overlook and - [Speaker with Midtown Health Center - Support Group with Kathryn](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/02/speaker-with-midtown-health-center-support-group-with-kathryn/) - English Support group met with Midtown Health Center Education Program to talk about Relationships. We discussed the difference between Healthy and Unhealthy Relationships, conflict resolution, personal rights and boundaries. Click here for the handout: Healthy Relationships - [Trauma Is Not Your Fault, But Healing Is Your Responsibility - Support Group with Kathryn](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/02/trauma-is-not-your-fault-but-healing-is-your-responsibility-support-group-with-kathryn/) - Monday night English Support Group talked about Trauma is not our fault but healing is our responsibility. No matter what has happened in our lives we all will be faced or have faced some form of trauma. Facing trauma can be difficult and we all go about how we handle it in different ways. One of - [Trastorno Bipolar - Spanish Support Group with Jessica](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/02/trastorno-bipolar-spanish-support-group-with-jessica/) - Trastorno bipolar ¿Qué es el trastorno bipolar? El trastorno bipolar es un trastorno mental que puede ser crónico o episódico (lo que significa que ocurre ocasionalmente y a intervalos irregulares). Puede ocasionar cambios inusuales, a menudo extremos y fluctuantes en el estado de ánimo, el nivel de energía y de actividad, y la concentración. Al - [Emotional Abuse and Body Image How One Affects the Other](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/02/emotional-abuse-and-body-image-how-one-affects-the-other/) - Self-esteem, confidence and self-worth are all issues that can be experienced by an individual who has experienced Emotional Abuse. Emotional abuse leaves scars that cannot been seen along with struggles that are not visible to others. Individuals that experience this form of abuse have been in relationships either with spouses, friends, relatives, or family members. Forms - [Monday Night Support Group with Jessica - Stop Negative Thinking](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/02/monday-night-support-group-with-jessica-stop-negative-thinking/) - Monday night support group with Jessica talked about how to stop negative thinking. “ANT’s” stands for Automatic Negative Thoughts. They are the voices that automatically argue against compliments you receive, or swat your hand away when you pat yourself on the back. ANT’s are buzz kills, always trying to drag you down. It’s not your - [Monday Night Support Group with Kathryn - Narcissistic Abuse](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/02/4382/) - Monday night English Support Group talked about how to spot Narcissistic Abuse. Narcissistic abusers do not love themselves, they are driven by placing shame onto someone else. Narcissists often are placing blame on others repeating words such as stupid, worthless, telling their significant other that no one will like them, tell them they don't deserve - [Support Group with Kathryn - National Stalking Awareness Month](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/01/support-group-with-kathryn-national-stalking-awareness-month/) - Monday night English Support Group discussed Stalking as part of National Stalking Awareness Month. Stalking is a pattern of behavior that can make you feel nervous, afraid, harassed and in danger. Behaviors from another individual who repeatedly contacts you, follows you, sends you things, talks to you when you do not want them to, or - [Support Group with Jessica - Closing Cycles](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/01/support-group-with-jessica-closing-cycles/) - Closing Cycles Not for pride or inability or For sovereignty, but simply Because it no longer fits in Your life, Close the door, Change the disk, Clean the house, Shake the dust, Stop being who you are and Transform yourself into who you really are. Cerrando ciclos No por orgullo ni por incapacidad Ni - [Support Group with Kathryn - Mentally Strong People and Controlling Emotions](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2020/01/support-group-with-kathryn-mentally-strong-people-and-controlling-emotions/) - Emotions are reactions to external and internal events that happen in a person's life, while Feelings are the reactions that have meaning behind it. Emotions are intense and created to jump start a reaction to a situation. Feelings generally have more analysis put into the reasoning but are not as intense. Emotions can be difficult to - [Support Group with Jessica - The World of Media](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/12/support-group-with-jessica-the-world-of-media/) - For Spanish & English Support Groups We had Taryn Hingst Education Outreach Specialist Midtown Health Center She talked about: The World of Media The United States has some of the most sexually suggestive media in the world. –Strasbuger, V. C., 2005 Do You Know? •We spend nearly 8 hours using media •Media is the 2nd - [Support Group with Jessica & Kathryn - Female Hygiene & Self Care](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/12/support-group-with-jessica-kathryn-female-hygiene-self-care/) - We had Josie Clark PA-C from Nebraska Health and Wellness Clinic LLC She talked about how important Female Hygiene and Self Care is and the causes of a unbalanced PH Normal P H : 3.8 - 4.5 What can change my pH - Bacterial vaginosis - Douching - Menopause - Other infections (Trichomonas vaginalis and group - [Support Group with Kathryn -- Freedom After Domestic Abuse](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/11/support-group-with-kathryn-freedom-after-domestic-abuse/) - Being a victim of domestic violence can bring many feelings to the surface for each person affected. The body for a victim is described as a container - as it remembers the darkness, feels the torment, senses fear and lives in shame. Freedoms are created when we : Stop all forms of self sabotage and - [Spanish Support Group with Jessica -- Children Dealing with Failures and Frustrations](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/11/spanish-support-group-with-jessica-children-dealing-with-failures-and-frustrations/) - GUIDELINES FOR TEACHING CHILDREN HOW TO DEAL WITH FAILURES AND FRUSTRATIONS. It is essential that during their development children learn To overcome these aspects in a constructive way. We must see frustration and mistakes as part Of life, and therefore it is our responsibility To teach them to learn from their mistakes, To face failures - [Spanish Support Group with Jessica - Alcohol Use Disorders and Facts](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/11/spanish-support-group-with-jessica-alcohol-use-disorders-and-facts/) - SPANISH SUPPORT GROUP We had a guest speaker Kay Eirmann from Elkhorn Logan Valley Public Health Department she had a Presentation on Alcohol Use Disorders and facts Alcohol Statistics ›In 2016, –10,497 people died in alcohol-impaired driving crashes. –214 children ages 0-14 years, died in alcohol-related traffic crashes. –More than 1 million drivers - [Support Group with Kathryn - Alcohol Use Disorder and Facts](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/11/support-group-with-kathryn-alcohol-use-disorder-and-facts/) - Monday night's support group topic focused on alcohol use disorder and facts. This is a disorder that can affect everyone in different ways, either used by a loved one or ourselves. Information was given on how alcohol affects pregnancy, violence, binge drinking, and current statistics for offenders and victims . - [Support Group with Jessica - Discover to be Happy](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/11/support-group-with-jessica-discover-to-be-happy/) - You will discover to be Happy, It is not having a perfect life. Use your tears to water Tolerance. Use the losses to refine the Patience. Use failures to sculpt Serenity. Use your pain as motivation to overcome anything in life. Use obstacles to open windows of inner Strength. DESCUBRIRAS QUE SER FELIZ, No es tener - [Support Group with Kathryn - Love Yourself](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/11/support-group-with-kathryn-love-yourself/) - Love yourself was the topic of the English Support Group Monday night. While they may seem like simple questions, it can often be hard for a victim of Domestic Violence (DV) and Sexual Assault(SA) to find ways to not only love themselves but finding ways to feel happy again as well. What would you LOVE - [Trick or Treat Safe Street](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/11/trick-or-treat-safe-street/) - The 2019 Ainsworth Trick or Treat Safe Street was last night, October 31st, from 4:30 until 6 p.m. in downtown Ainsworth! It was sponsored by the Ainsworth Women's Club. - [Guest Written Article: The New Spectre x360 13 and All the New Security Features Included](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/10/guest-written-article-the-new-spectre-x360-13-and-all-the-new-security-features-included/) - The New Spectre x360 13 and All the New Security Features Included Introduction It’s important that your laptop be secure from everyone. No matter if it’s your friend, family member or co-worker, your laptop is exactly that: yours. However, not many laptop manufacturers focus on improving the security of their devices. Maybe it’s because not - [Support Group with Kathryn - #1Thing](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/10/support-group-with-kathryn-1thing/) - English Support Group talked about what is the #1Thing that, as a victim of domestic violence, each of us could provide another person. Collectively as a group, our #1Thing is to become an advocate for other victims; Being the one person that a victim could talk to and know that there is a group of - [Support Group with Jessica - The Terrible Habit of People who Make Excuses](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/10/support-group-with-jessica-the-terrible-habit-of-people-who-make-excuses/) - The Terrible Habit of People who Make Excuses Don’t let the pretext make you look Bad with people. Take control and don’t adopt a bad reputation that Stains your brand. In this life everything is possible. The only Thing we cant avoid is death. ¿Do you want to Succeed? Then remove excuses from your mind - [Support Group with Kathryn - Dealing with "Stuff"](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/10/support-group-with-kathryn-dealing-with-stuff/) - We all put up with a lot of "stuff" from other people in our lives, some good some bad. Tonight's topic shows us how to look at behaviors to stop tolerating from others. "You may not be able to control all things people do to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by - [Support Group with Jessica - Love Yourself](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/10/support-group-with-jessica-love-yourself/) - LOVE YOURSELF and never return to the same place that made you feel Insecure,Sad,Annoyed, or Badly Loved ...... BELIEVE ME...... YOU DONT BELONG THERE... AMATE y nunca vuelvas al mismo lugar que te hizo sentir una persona Insegura, Triste,Molesta,Mal Amada ...... CREEME..... AHI NO PERTENECES... - [Support Group with Jessica and Kathryn - Family Planning Options](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/10/support-group-with-jessica-and-kathryn-family-planning-options/) - Family Planning Options Questions to ask How important is it that I (or my partner) not get pregnant? Is the method easy to use? Am I able to use a daily method consistently? How do I feel about touching my body? Do I want a method that is always in my body? Do I need - [Citizen of the Year Award](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/10/citizen-of-the-year-award/) - Congratulations to our very own Lacy Kimes! Lacy, our Housing Supervisor was nominated for the 'Citizen of the Year' award at the Salvation Army Luncheon Fundraiser held on October 8th, 2019. Lacy has been a tremendous asset to Bright Horizons, Project Homeless Connect Norfolk, and our entire community. We are so proud to have her - [Support Group with Jessica and Kathryn -- Breast Health](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/10/support-group-with-jessica-breast-health/) - Breast Health Josie Clark, PA-C Facts: - 1 in 8 women will be diagnosed with breast cancer during their lifetime - Most common cancer in American women - Every 2 minutes a woman is diagnosed with breast cancer - Men can get it too!! Risk factors: - Caucasian race - Family history - [Support Group with Jessica - Bullying is NOT Okay; How Parents Can Prevent It](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/10/3893/) - Bullying is not okay How parents can prevent Bullying: Explain Bullying Tell them you don't want them to take part in mistreating another student at any level, however big or small. Students who come from families that oppose bullying accept that bullying is wrong and are less likely to bully. Forbid Bullying Do not allow - [Support Group with Kathryn - Self Compassion](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/10/support-group-with-kathryn-self-compassion/) - English Support Group's topic for Monday night was Self Compassion. One of the key points that we discussed was : "When you are self-compassionate in the face of difficulty, you neither judge yourself harshly, nor feel the need to defensively focus on all your awesome qualities to protect your ego...you can be self-compassionate while striving - [Support Group with Kathryn - Forgiveness](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/09/support-group-with-kathryn-forgiveness/) - Forgiveness can be a difficult topic for some people and what we learned in our discussion is that forgiveness is even harder when you look at forgiving yourself. We all face situations where we had to make a decision that may not have been liked by those involved, we look at ways we can fix - [Support Group with Jessica -- When Words Leave Scars](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/09/support-group-with-jessica-when-words-leave-scars/) - VERBAL ABUSE: WHEN WORDS LEAVE SCARS Much is said about Physical Violence and about the beaten of Woman, but there is another form of Aggression, much more subtle because it doesn't leave Visible Marks, but its just as harmful as any other Aggression: Verbal Abuse or Abuse. Words can be used to damage, you cant - [Support Group with Kathryn -- Anxiety, Depression, and Self-Care](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/09/support-group-with-kathryn-anxiety-depression-and-self-care/) - English Support Group identified the most important stressors that can trigger anxiety and depression during our group meeting on Monday night with guest speaker Josie Clark, PA-C with Nebraska Health and Wellness Clinic. Discussion centered on medications, social situations, sadness, lack of interest, thoughts of suicide, fatigue, and sleep disturbance. In addition to identifying our - [In Kind Donation Drive](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/09/in-kind-donation-drive/) - Through the month of October we will be collecting paper goods, personal hygiene items, and non-perishable food items. Here are the following donation drive sites that will be helping us collect these items: -St. John's Lutheran Church, Norfolk -Our Savior Lutheran Church, Norfolk -First United Methodist Church, Norfolk -St. Peter's Catholic Church, Stanton -Elkhorn Valley - [Tyson Foods Outreach](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/09/tyson-foods-outreach/) - Congrats to our raffle prize winner at Tyson Foods! Our Bilingual Advocates Yajaira and Jessica are at Tyson twice a month doing outreach. Each month they focus on different topics and set up an informational booth with promotional items as well. On average these ladies see easily over 200 people per visit. The ultimate goal - [Support Group with Jessica - Anxiety, Depression, and Self-Care](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/09/support-group-with-jessica-anxiety-depression-and-self-care/) - We had Josie Clark PA-C From NEBRASKA HEALTH AND WELLNESS CLINIC LLC talk about .... Anxiety/ Depression And Self Care What is depression? • Loss of interest • Feelings of sadness/hopelessness • Sleep disturbance • Fatigue • Trouble concentrating • Thoughts of suicide What is anxiety? • Persistent and excessive worry that interferes with your - [Support Group with Jessica - Anger Skills Development Exercises](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/09/support-group-with-jessica-anger-skills-development-exercises/) - ANGER SKILLS DEVELOPMENT EXERCISES In a moment of anger, you may feel powerless against tumultuous emotions you experience and you may find yourself saying things or making decisions you may regret later. You must not be caught by the temption of anger, Although, through anger management exercises, You can learn not only to manage your - [Support Group with Kathryn - What to do with Baggage.](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/09/support-group-with-kathryn-what-to-do-with-baggage/) - Tonight's topic dealt with baggage. We all have baggage no matter how big or small it might be, we all still have some sort of baggage that weighs us down. By being able to write down and toss that baggage away, some people felt relief and some felt that there was no change. Going forward - [National Sexual Assault Conference 2019](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/08/national-sexual-assault-conference-2019/) - Our advocates Felicia and Yajaira had the amazing opportunity to attend the National Sexual Assault Conference in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania “Beyond the Breakthrough” hosted by the Pennsylvania Coalition Against Rape and National Sexual Violence Resource Center. The conference was a two and a half day, advocacy-based conference providing advanced training opportunities and information regarding sexual violence - [Support Group with Jessica -- Consequences of Overprotecting Children](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/08/support-group-with-jessica-consequences-of-overprotecting-children/) - Topic: Consequences of overprotecting children If instead of supporting the child, suggesting and guiding him to learn by himself, we watch and we give it all sorted, far from, helping him to grow, the child will have a low development of his skills and will take a stand of passivity and comfort, since it will - [How Victims of Domestic Violence Can Use Tech to Protect Themselves](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/08/how-victims-of-domestic-violence-can-use-tech-to-protect-themselves/) - Domestic violence refers to any conduct that purposes to deal with a personal accomplice. Along these lines, domestic violence isn't physical violence alone, it can take numerous forms. Innovation can be both an enabling device and a potential wellspring of hazard for grown-ups dealing with maltreatment from a personal accomplice. Present-day innovation can help perpetrators - [Support Group with Kathryn -- Overcoming Fear](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/08/support-group-with-kathryn-overcoming-fear/) - Facing fears can be bring mixed emotions for some people. While one person can handle fear and what it brings (adrenaline can be a rush for some people) others have a hard time handling fear and processing ways to live their life on a daily basis can be difficult. As a victim of Domestic Violence - [Support Group with Jessica -- Why self-esteem?](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/08/support-group-with-jessica-why-self-esteem/) - Topic: Why self-esteem ? A person with a good self-esteem is very fortunate. There is a general agreement that self-esteem is fundamental for good Mental and Physical Health. While self hatred damages our health,well being and performance. Tema: ¿ Por que autoestima ? Una persona con una buena autoestima es muy afortunada. Existe un - [Bounce Back to School Carnival](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/08/bounce-back-to-school-carnival/) - Bright Horizons recently had a table at the Saint John’s Lutheran Church’s Bounce Back to School Carnival from 5 to 7 on August 7th at St. John’s parking lot. This was the first year for the event. Ashley worked the table this year and handed out Bully Free gear; pencils, draw string bags, pens, notepads, - [Support Group with Jessica - You Deserve to Be Happy](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/08/support-group-with-jessica-you-deserve-to-be-happy/) - Topic: Woman you must be happy, because you deserve it ! Now-a-days, us Women are surrounded by social pressure that demands them to be a great mother, willing and dependent mother with kids, husband and family. That is very Exhausting ! Don't wait for someone to tell you how worthy and beautiful you are. Look - [Bully Free School Year](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/08/bully-free-school-year/) - Bright Horizons participated in the Back to School Bash last night with saying "No to Bullying." Kids were able to take the pledge against bullying by painting their hand on our office windows. Here is to another safe and BULLY FREE school year! - [Support Group with Kathryn - What Is Your Communication Style?](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/08/support-group-with-kathryn-what-is-your-communication-style/) - We all have different communication styles, and what we learned about ourselves is that depending on the situation that each person is placed in affects how a person will communicate their response to another individual. What is your communication style? What's Your Communication Style? This quiz breaks our communication styles down into three categories. Choose - [National Night Out](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/08/national-night-out/) - National Night Out in Central Park was a fun filled family event night put on by the Norfolk Police Division and the City of Norfolk. Our table provided backpacks promoting a bully free environment along with information on the services that we offer. There were many families in attendance to find out information on services - [Fit N' Fun Family Festival](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/08/fit-n-fun-family-festival/) - In July we attended the Fit N’ Family Fun Festival at NECC Ag Complex. Numerous people were in attendance; this year our focus was on Anti – Bullying Awareness. Children and adults answered questions about what it feels like to be bullied, how can you help someone who is being bullied, and what to do - [New Office Hours](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/08/new-hours/) - Starting Monday August 5th, our three offices will have new business hours. Instead of our regular 9-5 hours, we will now be opening at 8am and closing at 4pm. Also, just a reminder that our 24/7 crisis line is also available for any crisis situations during our off hours. - [Bright Horizons' 9th Annual Multi-Family Garage Sale](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/07/bright-horizons-9th-annual-multi-family-garage-sale/) - Bright Horizons' 9th Annual Multi-Family Garage Sale is Thursday, July 25th from 7a-5p at St. John's Lutheran Church in Norfolk. All proceeds go back to Bright Horizons to help provide services to survivors of domestic violence and sexual assault. St. John's Lutheran Church has not only provided the space for the annual sale each year, - [Jennifer Sorrells Memorial Walk](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/07/jennifer-sorrells-memorial-walk/) - On July 13th, we honored Jennifer Sorrells with the 3rd annual domestic violence memorial walk. It was an evening full of fellowship and awareness. Karen Avery, a survivor of domestic violence and sexual assault, spoke about her experience of being a survivor of abuse. Linda Olson also spoke on behalf of Bright Horizons and the - [I Did It for the Money](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/06/3631/) - I DID IT FOR THE MONEY J.LYNN JUNE 25, 2019 She came forward for the money and the fame. Of all the reasons I have heard of people blaming assault victims for coming forward, the one that shocks me the most is that people seem to think that assault survivors come forward for the money and - [Community Partnership of the Year Award](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/06/community-partnership-of-the-year-award/) - On Monday, June 24th, Bright Horizons presented their first ever "Community Partnership of the Year" award. This award came about when we noticed that our agency is among some amazing community members. This years recipient is someone who noticed a need in the community and in the jail system for a domestic and sexual assault - [Ranch Expo](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/06/ranch-expo/) - June 19th and 20th Bright Horizons and the North Central District Health Department teamed up to bring awareness to the Sandhill’s Ranch Expo at Basset, NE. Thank you to those of you who stopped by our booth! Pictured: Diane Selby and Shanna Sullivan - [Anonymous Reporting of Sexual Assault](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/06/anonymous-reporting-of-sexual-assault/) - On June 17th, Emily Schoenleber from the Nebraska State Patrol and Michelle Miller from the Nebraska Coalition to End Sexual and Domestic Violence, came to Bright Horizons’ Boyd and Holt County’s CRT meeting. Emily and Michelle presented the legislative changes in the LB1132 bill. This bill now allows survivors of sexual assault to report the - [LGBTQ and Domestic Violence](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/06/lgbtq-and-domestic-violence/) - Leading facts and statistics on the LBGTQ population and domestic violence. The facts about LGBTQ partner abuse/domestic violence are often hidden by numerous myths and misconceptions. Common myths and misconceptions include the belief that women are not violent, that men are not commonly victims, that LGBTQ domestic violence is mutual, and that there are no - [Volunteer Spotlight](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/06/volunteer-spotlight/) - We would like to take some time to recognize our intern at the Norfolk office, Wilma Alvarado! She started with us May 28th and is doing a 400 hour internship through the summer. She chose Bright Horizons to pursue her internship because she wanted to learn more about our agency. She has been busy training - [BRAN 2019](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/06/bran-2019/) - For the 39th consecutive year, Bicycle Ride Across Nebraska (BRAN) offered bicyclists the opportunity to take part in a week-long bike ride celebration of our state’s scenic beauty. On day 3 of this ride, riders cycled from Cody to Ainsworth, NE. Bright Horizons had an opportunity to set up an information booth, along with other - [Family Fun Day](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/06/family-fun-day/) - On June 2nd, the Evangelical Church in Ainsworth hosted a Family Fun Day at the Ainsworth City Park. It was a day of free music, food, and fun. The purpose of the event was to serve the community, and to bring awareness to the different ministries that the area has to offer. Bright Horizons was - [DHHS Shares Ways To Recognize And Report Elder Abuse](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/06/dhhs-shares-ways-to-recognize-and-report-elder-abuse/) - Lincoln – As many as 1 in 10 older Americans experience elder abuse, neglect or exploitation. On World Elder Abuse Awareness Day, June 15, the Department of Health and Human Services aims to bring heightened awareness to the mistreatment of older adults. “Elder abuse is a major issue that often goes unreported and unaddressed," said Dr. Matthew - [Vehicle Donation](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/06/vehicle-donation/) - On May 30, 2019, Bright Horizons accepted the gracious donation of a vehicle from Prairie Hills Ford. Accepting this donation were Executive Director, Linda Olson and Outreach Coordinator, Kerry Clevinger. Presenting the van to Bright Horizons is Kevin Peitz, Sales Manager. Thank you to Prairie Hills Ford staff members for thinking of our agency to - [14 Misconceptions About Domestic Violence](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/06/14-misconceptions-about-domestic-violence/) - After a video surfaced of football player Ray Rice punching out his then-fiancée Janay in an elevator, domestic violence has been at the forefront of the national conversation. When the couple married, many asked, "Why would she stay with him?" Twitter answered back with #WhyIStayed and #WhyILeft, in which survivors shared their stories of why they remained - [Intimate Partner Sexual Violence](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/04/intimate-partner-sexual-violence/) - When many people hear about sexual violence, they often assume that the perpetrator was a stranger. They may picture dark alleys and sinister figures lurking in the shadows. Even though 30% of sexual assault victims are attacked by strangers, the circumstances around each assault vary widely. Victims and survivors of sexual assault are often blamed - [Elks Club Donation](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2019/03/elks-club-donation/) - The Benevolent and Protective Order of Elks is an organization that emphasizes work with veterans and youth in our communities. Norfolk Elks Lodge #653 has several on-going projects with this in mind. One of these is sponsoring Boy Scout troop #124. The Lodge received a grant from the Elks National Foundation to use for this - [37 Holiday Self-Care Tips For Anyone Who Is Kind Of Not OK RN](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2018/12/37-holiday-self-care-tips-for-anyone-who-is-kind-of-not-ok-rn/) - It's the most wonderful time of the year...except when, you know, everything is bad and you're not OK. And even though feeling sad/anxious/lonely/broken/stressed in December is really common, that doesn't mean it's easy to deal with, or even talk about. Looking at picture-perfect families in matching Christmas jammies can feel terrible if you can’t or won’t be seeing - [3 Telltale Signs You're A Victim Of Financial Abuse](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2018/11/3-telltale-signs-youre-a-victim-of-financial-abuse/) - It’s easy to spot a black eye or broken bone. But many other symptoms of domestic violence are invisible to outsiders. That’s especially true of financial abuse, which occurs in 99 percent of domestic violence cases, according to a survey released by Allstate Foundation Purple Purse, a campaign that seeks to end domestic violence through financial empowerment. Tennis - [When No One Believes You](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2018/10/when-no-one-believes-you/) - Have you tried to tell someone you’re being abused, only to be accused of lying? It’s not your fault. Let’s get that out of the way right now. If you’re a survivor of domestic abuse, whether or not you’ve yet left the relationship, it’s not your fault. This fact can be incredibly hard for survivors - [What kind of person makes false rape accusations?](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2018/09/what-kind-of-person-makes-false-rape-accusations/) - False rape accusations loom large in the cultural imagination. We don’t forget the big ones: The widely-read 2014 Rolling Stone article, later retracted, about a brutal gang rape at the University of Virginia; the 2006 accusations against innocent members of the Duke University lacrosse team. These cases are readily cited by defense attorneys and Republican lawmakers and anyone else who - [Explaining Violence to Kids](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2018/09/explaining-violence-to-kids/) - Talking about domestic violence is never easy. Talking about it with the children who witness violence can be both a heartbreaking and confusing challenge for parents to navigate. But parents need to address the issue, whether or not they plan to leave. “Having the conversation is hard on the survivor and may trigger anxiety - [Co-Parenting with Your Abuser](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2018/08/co-parenting-with-your-abuser/) - If you have children with your abuser, then you already know how difficult it is to maintain a civil co-parenting status with the abuser. There are difficulties at every turn. As a result of these difficulties, co-parenting with an abusive partner is difficult at best and a nightmare at worst. What is co-parenting? Co-parenting suggests - [When They're Not Ready for Help](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2018/08/when-theyre-not-ready-for-help/) - Your family member/best friend/coworker/neighbor discloses to you that he or she is having “relationship difficulties.” With a bit more digging, you come to learn these difficulties are actually domestic abuse—psychological, emotional, verbal, sexual — there may even be physical violence occurring. Your heart drops and your anger level rises. You jump into advice-giving mode: This is - [Bags of Hope](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/04/1214/) - Jamie Drahota, Bright Horizons Advocate/Bookkeeper from the Norfolk office mentored girls for the Philanthropy Youth Project; Bags of Hope. The youth project is sponsored by the Philanthropy Council of Northeast Nebraska, which is a group of nonprofit organizations that work together to create a culture of giving in northeast Nebraska. Kailyn Storovich, Paige Pena, Kayla - [There’s a Way Out: How to Safety Plan](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2018/08/theres-a-way-out-how-to-safety-plan/) - But one day–tired of her life, tired of the evil before her, she found the courage to break her silence. She stood facing her abuser, the one out to destroy her. And she shouted in loud voice, “No more silence, no more hurt!” I can remember as if it was yesterday, the day I picked up - [Make A Difference](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2018/06/make-a-difference/) - Concerned citizens of all ages can become involved in prevention: Report suspected mistreatment to the local APS agency or law enforcement. Although a situation may have already been investigated, if you believe circumstances are getting worse, continue to speak out. Plan ahead to protect against financial exploitation. Find out how to protect yourself or a loved one - [Representing Yourself in Court](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2018/06/representing-yourself-in-court/) - If you’re planning to go to court to secure a permanent order of protection against your batterer, the ideal situation is to have an attorney representing you who specializes in cases similar to your own. However, that’s not always possible for everyone. In fact, some jurisdictions are seeing as many as 90 percent of certain types of - [Don’t Stay for the Kids](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2018/05/dont-stay-for-the-kids/) - “Her hands fumbled the doorknob, in hopes of a new beginning. But she dared not go.” Every victim has their reasons why they stay. Some stay due to fear, shame, fear of judgment, and some simply stay to “keep the family together.” They feel it is their responsibility to stay in the abusive relationship, so - [Celebrate Mothers & Parents By Supporting Them in the Workplace](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2018/05/celebrate-mothers-parents-by-supporting-them-in-the-workplace/) - The National Network to End Domestic Violence (NNEDV) is dedicated to creating a social, political, and economic environment in which domestic violence no longer exists. One of the root causes of domestic violence is inequality, so striving for equality is a priority at NNEDV. Creating supportive workplaces allows for more employees to be successful and - [Minority Women and Domestic Violence](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2018/04/minority-women-and-domestic-violence/) - By Kathyrn Carlson; Bright Horizons Shelter Advocate Racial minority women who are involved in domestic violence situations often do not see the benefits of reporting crimes to police based on several different circumstances. One study in Canada provided additional insight as to how criminal justice responses need to be addressed for women of minority races - [14 Self-Care Tips for Sexual Assault Survivors Suffering from PTSD](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2018/04/14-self-care-tips-for-sexual-assault-survivors-suffering-from-ptsd/) - IN HONOR OF SEXUAL ASSAULT AWARENESS MONTH, HERE ARE SOME IMPORTANT SELF-CARE TIPS FOR WHEN THINGS BECOME TOO MUCH. For those suffering from acute or long-term post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and depression, there are often times when these become so overwhelming that it can be difficult to even accomplish the basic functions of daily living. Often - [13 Ways to Support Survivors During Sexual Assault Awareness Month](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2018/04/13-ways-to-support-survivors-during-sexual-assault-awareness-month/) - Chances are someone you know is a survivor of sexual violence. They might not have told you, or anyone else, out of fear of being blamed or judged. With the #MeToo movement making it more acceptable for victims to openly discuss their experiences and the added layer of April being Sexual Assault Awareness Month, it - [How to Rebuild After Escaping Financial Abuse](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2018/03/how-to-rebuild-after-escaping-financial-abuse/) - Perhaps you have an image in your mind of what domestic abuse is. Many of us probably think of physical or verbal abuse, but aren’t as aware of financial or economic abuse. In fact, financial abuse goes hand in hand with physical abuse: 98 percent of people in abusive relationships experience financial abuse, according to the National - [Economic Abuse and Domestic Violence](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2018/03/economic-abuse-and-domestic-violence/) - What Is Economic Abuse? Economic abuse involves maintaining control over financial resources, withholding access to money, or attempting to prevent a victim or survivor from working and/or attending school in an effort to create financial dependence as a means of control. Victims and survivors are often forced to choose between staying in abusive relationships and - [Teens: Are You In an Unhealthy Relationship?](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2018/02/teens-are-you-in-an-unhealthy-relationship/) - Teens: Are You In an Unhealthy Relationship? Abuse doesn't always leave bruises—how to spot four different common forms The first time you’re in a romantic relationship as a teen can feel a little dizzying. It’s exciting and nerve-wracking all at once. There’s a reason why they describe love as feeling like you’re being swept off your - [Technology-Facilitated Stalking: What You Need to Know](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2018/01/technology-facilitated-stalking-what-you-need-to-know/) - The Safety Net project at the National Network to End Domestic Violence (NNEDV) explores the intersection of technology and domestic violence, stalking, sexual assault, and dating violence. Safety Net strives to help survivors increase their safety while continuing to use their technology through the provision of safety tips and tools. Through technology and our use of - [Identifying a Victim of Human Trafficking](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2018/01/identifying-a-victim-of-human-trafficking/) - Everyone has a role to play in combating human trafficking. Recognizing the signs of human trafficking is the first step to identifying a victim. Indicators of Human Trafficking: Recognizing key indicators of human trafficking is the first step in identifying victims and can help save a life. Here are some common indicators to help recognize human trafficking: - [Stalking Safety Planning](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2018/01/stalking-safety-planning-2/) - Overview Several murders of stalking victims have highlighted the fact that people who stalk can be very dangerous. Stalkers can threaten, attack, sexually assault and even kill their victims. Unfortunately, there is no single psychological or behavioral profile that can predict what stalkers will do. Stalkers' behaviors can escalate, from more indirect ways of making - [Candlelight Vigils in October](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2012/09/candlelight-vigils-in-october/) - October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month! Statistics show that 3 women are murdered every day by their partner. Bright Horizons is hosting two candlelight vigils to mourn those who have died at the hands of their abuser, reach out to those who silently suffer, and celebrate those who have survived and escaped abuse. There will - [What we can learn from Penn State](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2011/11/what-we-can-learn-from-penn-state/) - It's unfortunate that it takes national headlines to get people talking about a problem that is all too prevalent in our society but we can take advantage of this opportunity to shine the light on the issue of child sexual abuse and recognize that we all have a responsibility to protect children. We've learned that this issue - [The STAR Project](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2013/03/the-star-project/) - This Blog features Naomi Johnson’s FCCLA star project. Please take the time to read and congratulate Naomi on her ambition and compassion. With the help of people like this young lady Bright Horizons can provide our clients with an item that may seem small but makes a big impact. Domestic violence is the most common - [In Memory of our Volunteer Pam](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2012/12/in-memory-of-our-volunteer-pam/) - It is with heavy hearts that we at Bright Horizons recognize the passing of Pam Clark. Pam endured many hardships in her life. Instead of allowing those hardships to define her she used her past to reach out to others. Pam had the most loving, generous heart and made such a difference in many lives. - [National Law Enforcement Appreciation Day on January 9, 2018](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2018/01/national-law-enforcement-appreciation-day-on-january-9-2018/) - A day to show the men and women in law enforcement how much we value them, their service and protection of our communities While the public should recognize the bravery, courage, honor and integrity shown by our nation’s law enforcement officers every day, there is one day each year set aside to show how much - [Human Trafficking](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2018/01/human-trafficking/) - Human trafficking is a form of modern slavery -- a multi-billion dollar criminal industry that denies freedom to 20.9 million people around the world. And no matter where you live, chances are it's happening nearby. From the girl forced into prostitution at a truck stop, to the man discovered in a restaurant kitchen, stripped of his - [Getting Kids Out of Harm's Way](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2017/12/getting-kids-out-of-harms-way/) - An estimated 8 million children a year are exposed to domestic violence in their homes, and some 18 million children witness or experience domestic violence over their lifetimes. No non abusive parent would ever want that kind of life for their children, and yet, many survivors feel stuck. When little ones are in a household where domestic violence is - [To My New Partner: 10 Things I Wish I Could Tell You](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2017/12/to-my-new-partner-10-things-i-wish-i-could-tell-you/) - Dating after abuse is not easy. It’s hard for survivors to know what is and isn’t abuse and to be able to open up to their new partner. It’s critical that anyone who has a relationship with a domestic violence survivor is patient and understanding. Don’t be afraid to have heavy conversations with them and - [Facing the Holidays as a Survivor](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2017/12/facing-the-holidays-as-a-survivor/) - Facing the holiday season as an abuse survivor can seem like a daunting task. Survivors can experience feelings of fear, guilt, worry, panic, and loneliness. They may even have thoughts of wanting to return to the abuser because they miss what once was. Survivors can be especially fearful of the holiday season if the abuser - [Running For Her Life](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2017/07/running-for-her-life/) - One survivor tells how running helped her heal after almost losing her life to domestic violence May 03, 2017 By domesticshelters.org Liane Daniels took up running in high school, but life got in the way after graduation. She hung up her running shoes for a while and became busy with her career. She got married - [The Second-Hand Trauma That Comes With Working With Sexual Assault Survivors](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2017/08/the-second-hand-trauma-that-comes-with-working-with-sexual-assault-survivors/) - The first time I answered a hotline call for a rape crisis center, I didn’t know what to expect, other than tears. When it was over, the call lingered with me. The survivor’s voice, what they had experienced, how I responded. All of it haunted me for hours. And then it was time to answer - [Tips for Safely Reaching Out for Support](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2017/07/tips-for-safely-reaching-out-for-support/) - Being in a relationship should not mean you lose your right to privacy or your right to talk to whomever you like. But in an abusive relationship, an abusive person may isolate their partner from sources of support. This is often done by checking their partner’s call log and text history or denying their partner - [5 Signs of a Verbally Abusive Relationship](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2017/07/5-signs-of-a-verbally-abusive-relationship/) - 5 Signs of a Verbally Abusive Relationship It's not always obvious. Brittney McNamara Jul 5, 2017 Lydia Ortiz Over the July 4 weekend, an audio clip was released in which Jack Gilinsky can be heard verbally abusing Madison Beer. In the clip, which Jack confirmed his and Madison's voices can be heard on, Jack calls - [What a Relationship Shouldn't Be.](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2017/06/what-a-relationship-shouldnt-be/) - I am in the enviable position of being in a healthy marriage—but it didn’t come easy. Part of my secret is luck. When my husband found me I was basically a shell of a woman—still involved with my ex, who was one of the cruelest people I have ever personally known. Most men would have run - [“DEAR DAD”](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2017/06/dear-dad/) - 5 QUOTES THAT SHOW HOW DADS CAN HELP DAUGHTERS AVOID ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS The moment when your daughter begins to date is probably one of the most frightening times for any father. As a parent, you have spent years doing everything you can to protect your daughter from the world, so it can be hard to - [Adult Protective Services](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2017/06/adult-protective-services/) - The APS Act established a program designed to meet the needs of vulnerable adults and to assure the availability of the program to all eligible persons. It places authority and responsibility for investigations and interventions in situations of abuse/neglect of vulnerable adults with the Department of Health and Human Services (DHHS) and local law enforcement - [How Parents Talk With Their Children About Consent](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2017/06/how-parents-talk-with-their-children-about-consent/) - Each generation of parents likes to think they’re getting smarter about raising children, so that those kids can be smarter, too. Technological growth and new information play a major key in this, hence all the quinoa and the advent of gadgets like this “Pixar-like robotic home assistant.” Some of these developments might inspire a wave - [June is Elder Abuse Awareness Month](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2017/06/june-is-elder-abuse-awareness-month/) - June is Elder Abuse Awareness Month. According to The Administration on Aging, hundreds of thousands of elderly are abused, neglected, and exploited each year. Many of these victims are frail, vulnerable, and cannot help themselves and depend on others for their most basic needs. Their abusers may be family members, friends, or others they “trust.” - [The Problem with Calorie Counts on Menus!](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2017/05/the-problem-with-calorie-counts-on-menus/) - I haven’t been to the movies in a while, so I was excited when my friend suggested we head to a nearby theater last weekend. We left the house intending to watch either “Hidden Figures” or “La La Land” and of course, with our luck, we ended up in “Split.” To my pleasant surprise, it - [I Understand Why People Believe Sexual Predators Before Victims. I Did.](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2017/04/i-understand-why-people-believe-sexual-predators-before-victims-i-did/) - A close family member was accused – twice – of sexual assault. It was two decades before I questioned why our family believed him instead of his victims. I am a woman. I am a feminist. And it took me 12 years to admit that someone I loved was a sexual predator. This isn’t easy - [Yes, You Have A Role To Play In Preventing Sexual Violence (In All It's Forms)](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2017/04/yes-you-have-a-role-to-play-in-preventing-sexual-violence-in-all-its-forms/) - Whether you have been an advocate for decades or have only recently been inspired by the powerful stories of survivors coming forward, in a society where sexual violence is normalized there are daily opportunities to interrupt rape culture. And while some forms of sexual violence — such as sexist jokes, catcalling or vulgar gestures — - [6 Ways to Show Your Support During Sexual Assault Awareness Month](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2017/04/6-ways-to-show-your-support-during-sexual-assault-awareness-month/) - 1. Wear teal all April long. According to the National Sexual Violence Resource Center, teal is the official color of Sexual Assault Awareness Month. All month long, choose to integrate this gorgeous hue into your wardrobe as a subtle yet strong act of solidarity for survivors. A more obvious statement like a ribbon or pin - [April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2017/04/april-is-sexual-assault-awareness-month/) - It’s Sexual Assault Awareness Month! Did you know… Every 98 seconds, another person experiences sexual assault. Women ages 18-24 are at the highest risk for sexual assault. We think this is totally unacceptable! (Statistics via RAINN.) The high statistics for sexual assault and sexual violence continue to underscore the need for awareness and prevention work. - [Will My Partner Be Violent After I Leave?](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2017/03/will-my-partner-be-violent-after-i-leave/) - How to predict violence after leaving an abuser We know that leaving is the most dangerous time for a domestic violence survivor. Abusers often lash out in an attempt to regain control over their partner or may resort to extreme violence, even homicide, because they feel they have nothing left to lose. But not all - [Let’s Talk About Respect + Sex!](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2017/02/lets-talk-about-respect-sex/) - February 15, 2017 By loveisrespect.org Respect is important in all aspects of a relationship, but when it comes to sex, it’s really important for mutual respect to be a priority. In order to have respectful sex of any kind, partners need to have a solid understanding of each other’s boundaries around physical and sexual activity. - [“That’s So Disrespectful!”](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2017/02/thats-so-disrespectful/) - February 6, 2017 By Anitra, loveisrespect youth organizer “When you talk to other girls in front of me…” “When you dress like you’re single…” “You see me calling and don’t answer…” “That’s so disrespectful!” “You’re so disrespectful!” When speaking with people about their relationship experiences, one word I hear a lot is “disrespectful.” Disrespectful behavior - [Survivor Story: Ron Blake -'I found my own, unique way to take back my life.'](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2017/01/survivor-story-ron-blake-i-found-my-own-unique-way-to-take-back-my-life/) - One December night six years ago, while Ron Blake was asleep in his Phoenix, Ariz., home, three men broke in, held him down and sexually assaulted him. One of those three men was Blake’s life partner. Blake says his partner had struggled with alcohol addiction and that he could be physically and emotionally abusive when he was drinking. - [You Are No Less Of A Man For Having Been Assaulted](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2016/12/you-are-no-less-of-a-man-for-having-been-assaulted/) - Our society creates an atmosphere that erases the experiences of non-female survivors of sexual assault. This piece originally appeared in The Daily Mississippian. Fourteen years ago, I didn’t know what was happening to me. It happened over and over for years, and I didn’t know how to stop it. I was sexually assaulted by a - [Will My Abuser Retaliate?](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2016/12/will-my-abuser-retaliate/) - Whether or not you should expect violence to escalate after seeking a protection order. Domestic violence survivors seek personal protection orders (PPOs) to help protect themselves (and their families and, in some states, pets) from their abusers. Once in place, they are intended to limit contact between abuser and survivor and serve as a deterrent - [Domestic Violence Doesn't Take a Holiday](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2016/11/domestic-violence-doesnt-take-a-holiday/) - Survivors can face an increased risk during the holiday season. This year, as you hang the twinkling lights and decorate your mantel with sprigs of holly, remember that not everyone has gotten the message that it’s a season of peace. Unfortunately, the holidays can be an even more dangerous time than normal for those at - [Relationship Abuse Among LGBTQIA Communities](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2016/11/relationship-abuse-among-lgbtqia-communities/) - Relationship abuse can affect any person regardless of age, race, gender, sexual orientation, national origin, social class, and ability. You can be the class valedictorian or the star quarterback, the new face of CoverGirl or an introverted wall-flower. Anyone can be a victim of relationship abuse. Abusive partners in LGBTQIA* relationships – Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, - [When the Feelings Rush Back](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2016/11/when-the-feelings-rush-back/) - Triggers domestic violence survivors face, and how to get through them A survivor might be able to escape a violent partner. But they may experience traumatic stress afterward, including triggers, or unsettling sensory reminders of previous trauma. “A trigger is some form of stimuli that would precipitate a recollection from a person’s past that impacted - [This Is Why I Didn't Tell You He Was Beating Me](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2016/11/this-is-why-i-didnt-tell-you-he-was-beating-me/) - Understanding the mind-set of a domestic violence victim is almost impossible to do. Unless, like this writer, you’ve been one. October 05, 2016 By Janice Fuller-Roberts When I fled my abusive relationship for the last time (yes, I left and went back), one of the first things my well-meaning friends and family asked was - [National Sexual Assault Conference-Washington D.C. -By: Outreach Coordinator Emily Elsbury](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2016/09/national-sexual-assault-conference-washington-d-c/) - I had an amazing opportunity to attend the National Sexual Assault Conference (NSAC). I and seven other advocates from across Nebraska were awarded a scholarship to attend by the Nebraska Coalition to End Sexual and Domestic Violence. The conference was held in Washington D.C. August 31st through September 2nd, 2016 in Washington D.C. This conference - [Campus Safety Awareness Month](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2016/09/campus-safety-awareness-month/) - It’s that time of year again: college campuses are welcoming students for the start of a new semester. Incoming first years are buying books, moving into dorms, and brimming with excitement about what lies ahead. Of course, knowing that one in five college women is sexually assaulted or raped on campus and one in three - [Make It Work…Or Let It Go?](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2016/08/make-it-workor-let-it-go/) - Sometimes even relatively healthy relationships come to an end, for a variety of reasons. After all, many relationships come and go as life changes; we learn new things about ourselves, discover what we like and what we don’t like, and what we want and what we don’t want. This is called growth, and it’s a - [Is Change Possible In An Abuser?](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2016/08/is-change-possible-in-an-abuser/) - People change. That small, two-word sentence is actually a huge, significant statement that carries a lot of weight. We grow up learning about change — the inevitability of it, the uncertainty it can bring. We change — our opinions, personalities, careers, friends and much more. Some changes feel like they happen overnight. Others are more - [Do You Feel Trapped By Your Faith?](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2016/08/do-you-feel-trapped-by-your-faith/) - When spirituality and domestic violence cross paths March 07, 2016 - By domesticshelters.org Some religious communities provide a strong support network for survivors during or after domestic abuse … and some do not. While survivors may find solace and religious guidance from their spiritual leaders and their faith community, others may find their religions preaching that - [What Survivors of Domestic Violence Need From You During Recovery](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2016/08/1529/) - By Courtney Dercqu Published writer and author (ELITE Daily) When it came to dealing with an abusive relationship, there are a couple of things I wished people around me knew. Like for one, I wish people knew that just because you exit the relationship, doesn’t mean you’ve healed from the damage. Secondly, I wish people - [How to Respect Yourself and Others](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2016/07/how-to-respect-yourself-and-others/) - R-E-S-P-E-C-T What exactly is respect? It’s the sense of worth or personal value that you attach to someone. Respect is an overall evaluation you give someone based on many factors – what that person is doing with their life, how they treat you and others, whether they are honest or not and if they seem - [Back the Blue](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2016/07/back-the-blue/) - Let our officers know that you appreciate what they do in keeping our communities safe and they have supporters everywhere! If you would like to order a t-shirt please fill out this order form below! You can also stop in to fill out an order form at Bright Horizons office. Please make to return tohe - [25 Ways People Help Those Experiencing Abuse](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2016/06/25-ways-people-help-those-experiencing-abuse/) - #1. Listen unconditionally, non-judgmentally. #2. Set up a code word to signal an emergency. #3. Help them seek job opportunities. #4. Refer to counseling or expert guidance. #5. Take abuse seriously, believe the victim. #6. Let the victim make his/her own decisions. #7. Open home or other location as a safe haven. #8. Create a - [Are You a Victim of Financial Abuse?](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2016/06/are-you-a-victim-of-financial-abuse/) - Elder financial abuse is all too common. About a million older Americans lose an estimated $2.6 billion annually as a result, according to a MetLife study titled"Broken Trust: Elders, Family & Finances." Even celebrities such as Mickey Rooney claim to have fallen victim. You'd like to think that elder financial abuse is committed mostly by strangers. - [Niobrara High School Service Club](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2016/06/niobrara-high-school-service-club/) - Students at Niobrara High School who are in a service club led by Sharla Hanzlik have been working on a long term project with Project Linus, which is making and donating blankets. This club is open to anyone in 8th grade and older. Bright Horizons would like to thank the Niobrara's Schools for reaching out to - [Why Should I Care About Elder Abuse?](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2016/06/why-should-i-care-about-elder-abuse/) - Every day, headlines throughout the U.S. paint a grim picture of seniors who have been abused, neglected, and exploited, often by people they trust the most. Abusers may be spouses, family members, personal acquaintances, or professionals in positions of trust, or opportunistic strangers who prey on the vulnerable. How big is the problem? Research indicates - [Norfolk Prepares to Give Big](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2016/05/norfolk-prepares-to-give-big/) - By Chris Whitney; News Channel Nebraska NORFOLK – With Lincoln, Omaha, Columbus, and other communities throughout Nebraska holding an annual Big Give event for local non-profit groups, Norfolk is gearing up for their first installment later this month. Chairman of the Northeast Nebraska Philanthropy Council Anders Olson notes that although this is the first time - [The St. Mary’s Episcopal Church](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2016/05/the-st-marys-episcopal-church/) - Bright Horizons is very thankful for all of the generous support the community brings in to help men, women, and children of domestic violence and sexual assault. In rural Nebraska a group of community members that never cease to amaze our organization with their overwhelming determination to put aside their own time and commitment and to - [Facts on Sexual Harassment](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2016/05/facts-on-sexual-harassment/) - What is Sexual Harassment? Sexual harassment is ANY unwelcome, unwanted pressure, verbal, visual or physical contact of a sexual nature. It is a power play and may include: • putting a hand on someone’s shoulder • repeatedly propositioning someone when they have said no • questioning or commenting about a person’s sexuality • spreading sexual - [Reporting to Police: Options and Tips for Being Prepared](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2016/04/reporting-to-police-options-and-tips-for-being-prepared/) - If you or someone you care about is being abused, you may feel that contacting the police is one important step in your safety plan. We’ve seen that police intervention can be life-saving and can help survivors get connected to other resources. But we also know there are very real barriers for some survivors in - [Self-Care after Trauma](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2016/04/self-care-after-trauma/) - Self-care is about taking steps to feel healthy and comfortable. Whether it happened recently or years ago, self-care can help you cope with the short- and long-term effects of a trauma like sexual assault. Physical self-care After a trauma, it’s important to keep your body healthy and strong. You may be healing from injuries or - [Prevention Is Possible](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2016/04/prevention-is-possible/) - Sexual Violence is a widespread problem, but the good news is it is preventable. Prevention requires many voices and roles. There are many ways individuals, communities, and the private sector can take action to promote safety, respect, and equality. What is prevention? Prevention aims to stop sexual violence before it has a chance to happen. - [Safety Planning Around Sexual Abuse](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2016/04/safety-planning-around-sexual-abuse/) - May 28, 2015 This post was written by Heather, an advocate at loveisrespect/The Hotline All forms of abuse can be really difficult to endure, but we know that survivors of sexual abuse are often hesitant to talk about it even if they have previously opened up to a friend, counselor or Hotline advocate about other - [Gas Lighting: The Mind Game Everyone Should Know About](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2016/03/gas-lighting-the-mind-game-everyone-should-know-about/) - Unfortunately, there is a good chance that we have all been gas lighted by someone at some point in our lives, even if it was just on a small scale by someone we barely know. Sadly, many fall victim to it within their intimate relationships, or even in dealings with “friends” or family members. There is also - [Setting Boundaries](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2016/03/setting-boundaries/) - Whether you’re casually hooking up or have been going out for a while now, setting boundaries is an important part of any relationship. To have the healthiest relationship, both partners should know each other’s wants, goals, fears and limits. You should feel comfortable communicating your honest needs to your partner without being afraid of what - [Should we get back together?](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2016/03/should-we-get-back-together/) - By Nicole Seligman, a loveisrespect advocate I know you said you were never, ever, ever getting back together with your ex, but now you’re having second thoughts and aren’t sure what to do. It’s ok! We wrote up a little checklist to help you decide. I feel that I can communicate openly with this person - [Mental Health First Aid Training - By Kristy Beard, Ainsworth Program Director](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2016/02/mental-health-first-aid-training-by-kristy-beard-ainsworth-program-director/) - During the week of February 7-12, Region 4 Behavioral Health System gave myself along with 4 other people from the Region 4 Service Area an amazing opportunity to travel to San Antonio Texas to participate in and become certified instructors for Mental Health First Aid (MHFA). The Mental Health First Aid Instructor Training - [What is Consent?](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2016/02/what-is-consent/) - As important as consent is, we don’t talk about it enough. So it’s understandable if you’re a little unsure about what it is – and what it isn’t. You may have heard the idea that “no means no,” but this doesn’t really provide a complete picture of consent because it puts the responsibility on one person to resist - [Healthy Relationships](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2016/02/healthy-relationships/) - Communication is a key part to building a healthy relationship. The first step is making sure you both want and expect the same things—being on the same page is very important. The following tips can help you create and maintain a healthy relationship: Speak Up. In a healthy relationship, if something is bothering you, it’s - [Youth Philanthropy Contest Celebrate Giving](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2016/02/youth-philanthropy-contest-celebrate-giving/) - Here are some pictures from the 2016 Youth Philanthropy contest and the Celebrate Giving! It is so humbling and heartwarming to know the amount of support Bright Horizons has from the community. All 27 Youth projects were funded, 4 of which are going to Bright Horizons! What an amazing group of students! Also, two very - [February is Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month!](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2016/02/february-is-teen-dating-violence-awareness-month/) - by loveisrespect and breakthecycle Throughout the month of February, teens and organizations across the country will be working together to raise awareness about teen dating violence. And what an great month to focus on healthy relationships with Valentine's Day just around the corner! Did you know? 1 in 3 teens in the U.S. is the - [Stalking Safety Planning](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2016/01/stalking-safety-planning/) - Stalking Safety Planning Several murders of stalking victims have highlighted the fact that people who stalk can be very dangerous. Stalkers can threaten, attack, sexually assault and even kill their victims. Unfortunately, there is no single psychological or behavioral profile that can predict what stalkers will do. Stalkers' behaviors can escalate, from more indirect ways - [Look Beneath the Surface](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2016/01/look-beneath-the-surface/) - Human trafficking is a form of modern slavery. It is a multi-billion dollar criminal industry that denies freedom to 20.9 million people around the world. And no matter where you live, chances are it's happening nearby. From the girl forced into prostitution at a truck stop, to the man discovered in a restaurant kitchen, stripped of - [Are You Being Stalked?](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2016/01/are-you-being-stalked/) - Stalking is a series of actions that make you feel afraid or in danger. Stalking is serious, often violent, and can escalate over time. Stalking is a crime in all 50 states. A stalker can be someone you know well or not at all. Most have dated or been involved with the - [Safety Planning for the Holidays](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/12/safety-planning-for-the-holidays/) - December 3, 2015 This post was contributed by Emma, a loveisrespect advocate The holidays are often a time of joy and community, but for people in abusive relationships, the holidays can be stressful and dangerous. Spending time with family and friends, dealing with financial stress and traveling can make safety planning a challenge. Family and - [College Women Among Highest at Risk for Partner Violence](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/12/college-women-among-highest-at-risk-for-partner-violence/) - On Thanksgiving Day 2014, the body of Shannon Jones, 23, a senior engineering student at Cornell University was found in an apartment. Her boyfriend, 32, had strangled her after an argument. In February, 21-year-old Miami University student, Rebecca Eldermire was shot to death by her ex-boyfriend in her apartment (just a mile from campus). The - [Community Health Assessment Survey](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/12/community-health-assessment-survey/) - North Central District Health Department is conducting a community health assessment to gather information and put together a picture of our community’s health status. Please complete this survey to give us your feedback! Results will be shared in spring 2016. Community Health Assessment Survey *This survey is for people living in the following - [Mark Wynn Training](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/12/mark-wynn-training/) - On December, 3rd the Bright Horizons team attended the Mark Wynn Training sessions in O'Neill, NE at the O'Neill Community Center. The Police Department and Bright Horizons staff invited Mark Wynn to O'Neill, NE to educate people on in-depth information pertaining to sexual assault and his experiences with domestic violence, being a member of the police force in Nashville, Tennessee. Mark Wynn is a well-known national trainer - [Dating After Domestic Violence](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/11/dating-after-domestic-violence/) - It can seem inconceivable when you’re going through it, but after every breakup—even those from abusive partners—there will come a day when you feel that spark of attraction for someone again. Everyone’s timeline is different and you should, in no way, rush yourself, but on the flip side you also shouldn’t discount the possibility that - [Lack of Sleep By Lundy Bancroft](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/11/lack-of-sleep-by-lundy-bancroft/) - LACK OF SLEEP If you go day after day, week after week, not getting enough sleep, the toll it will take on you can be greater than you realize. Lack of sleep can clog up your ability to think clearly, and can make you feel more raw and sensitive emotionally. The effects tend to be - [Shopko Foundation Grant](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/11/shopko-foundation-grant/) - Bright Horizons was recently awarded a $500 grant from the Shopko Foundation to support Kris' House of Grace, their transitional shelter that will be opening soon. Pictured is Linda Olson, Executive Director, receiving the check from Deb Hinz and the Norfolk Shopko employees. - [How to Go From Surviving to Thriving After Abuse](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/10/how-to-go-from-surviving-to-thriving-after-abuse/) - Emerging from an abusive relationship presents the opportunity to shift from a surviving mode to a thriving mode. During this period of transition, independence and practical everyday challenges happen while you may be rebuilding self-esteem and healing emotionally. It’s no easy task, and understanding what may lie ahead and developing a course of action can - [Know More Do More 2015 National Campus Safety Awareness Month](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/09/know-more-do-more-2015-national-campus-safety-awareness-month/) - It is hard to miss the frenzy of activity around campus sexual assault. From the White House Task Force to Protect Students from Sexual Assault, to new campus legislation and regulations, to intense media coverage to an unbelievable outcry from students, survivors, and activists…. Campus sexual assault is a problem that has gained the nation’s attention. As preventionists - [Music brings us together in celebration](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/09/music-brings-us-together-in-celebration/) - Music brings us together in celebration Lorem ipsum dolor sit ets amet, consectetur adipiscing elit sed do eiusmod tempor incididunt ut labore et dolore magna aliqua. Ut enim ad minim veniam, quis nostrud exercitation ullamco laboris nisi ut aliquip ex ea commodo consequat. Duis aute irure dolor in reprehenderit in voluptate velit esse cillum dolore - [Kris' House of Grace](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/08/kris-house-of-grace/) - Bright Horizons is excited to announce that we will be opening a transitional housing program, Kris’ House of Grace, in Norfolk this fall. This is made possible through a working agreement with the First United Methodist Church of Norfolk. Kris’ House of Grace will be a transitional shelter where families that are transitioning from either - [The Church's Response](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/07/the-churchs-response/) - This July we have been focusing our outreach efforts to churches. Packets with informational material on our services and domestic violence/sexual assault have been sent out to churches in our service area. When a victim of domestic violence or sexual assault reaches out to a church for help, our goal is that they know how to respond. How - [How You Can Help a Family Member or Friend](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/07/how-you-can-help-a-family-member-or-friend/) - I have been asked on numerous occasions "what can I do to help my loved one/friend that is involved in a DV situation". Here are some good tips for being a good support system to that individual. Acknowledge that they are in a very difficult and scary situation, be supportive and listen. Let them know - [4 Ways to Find a Healthy Relationship](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/07/4-ways-to-find-a-healthy-relationship/) - Scary thought: It’s not uncommon for a batterer to be the most charming person in the room when you first meet them. It’s not uncommon for them to be attractive, attentive, romantic and thoughtful, even, dare we say, kind? A batterer may keep their desire to exert power and control over a victim secret, typically - [How to Protect Yourself at Work](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/06/how-to-protect-yourself-at-work/) - Leaving an abusive partner can be extraordinarily difficult, made even more challenging by worries surrounding your workplace, such as the abuser showing up at your workplace and concern about bosses and colleagues learning about your situation. Leaving an abuser can be one of the most dangerous times in that relationship. You may or may not - [5 Facts About Children of Domestic Violence](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/06/5-facts-about-children-of-domestic-violence/) - Consider this: 90 percent of parents who are currently experiencing domestic violence within their relationship believe their children don’t know what’s happening. But when researchers asked the children, 90 percent of them were, in fact, well aware. It’s estimated that more than 275 million children worldwide are currently being exposed to violence in the home. - [How do you give back to others?](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/06/how-do-you-give-back-to-our-family/) - Excepteur sint occaecat cupidatat non proident, sunt in culpa qui officia deserunt mollit anim. - [Is space travel a religious matter?](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/06/is-the-space-travel-a-religious-matter/) - Excepteur sint occaecat cupidatat non proident, sunt in culpa qui officia deserunt mollit anim. - [8 beautiful cathedrals explored](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/06/8-beautiful-cathedrals-explored/) - Excepteur sint occaecat cupidatat non proident, sunt in culpa qui officia deserunt mollit anim. - [Tribute paid to victims of the earthquake](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/06/tribute-paid-to-the-victims-of-devastating-recent-earthquake/) - Excepteur sint occaecat cupidatat non proident, sunt in culpa qui officia deserunt mollit anim id est laborum. - [Faith is like a loving parent when you need it most](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/06/faith-is-like-a-loving-parent-when-you-need-it-most/) - Excepteur sint occaecat cupidatat non proident, sunt in culpa qui officia deserunt mollit anim id est laborum. - [Annual summer camp gets underway](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/06/annual-summer-camp-gets-underway/) - Excepteur sint occaecat cupidatat non proident, sunt in culpa qui officia deserunt mollit anim id est laborum. - [10 examples of where charity changed everything](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/06/10-examples-where-charity-changed-everything/) - Excepteur sint occaecat cupidatat non proident, sunt in culpa qui officia deserunt mollit anim id est laborum. - [What challenges face a family who lives by faith?](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/06/what-challenges-face-a-family-who-lives-by-faith/) - Excepteur sint occaecat cupidatat non proident, sunt in culpa qui officia deserunt mollit anim id est laborum. - [Record numbers of food banks open each month](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/06/record-numbers-of-food-banks-open-each-month/) - Excepteur sint occaecat cupidatat non proident, sunt in culpa qui officia deserunt mollit anim id est laborum. - [Church raises money with social media](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/06/church-raises-money-by-harnessing-social-media/) - Excepteur sint occaecat cupidatat non proident, sunt in culpa qui officia deserunt mollit anim id est laborum. - [Community reaches out and helps others](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/06/community-team-reaches-out-and-helps-others/) - Excepteur sint occaecat cupidatat non proident, sunt in culpa qui officia deserunt mollit anim id est laborum. - [Growing a family the right way is challenging](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/05/growing-a-family-the-right-way/) - Excepteur sint occaecat cupidatat non proident, sunt in culpa qui officia deserunt mollit anim id est laborum. - [8 Confidence Boosters to Improve Your Self Esteem](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/05/8-confidence-boosters-to-improve-your-self-esteem/) - Maybe you’re recovering from a domestic violence situation, or you’re working up to leaving an abusive partner. Either way, you might be experiencing a blow to your self-esteem. It’s not your fault—batterers often use callous and devious tactics to rob survivors of their confidence in order to maintain power and control over their partners. Low - [When You Cant Afford to Leave An Abusive Partner](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/05/when-you-cant-afford-to-leave-an-abusive-partner/) - Without financial independence, many survivors feel trapped It seems simple enough—if you’re with an abusive partner, just leave. Walk out. Start fresh. Save yourself and your children. One reason survivors stay: They may not be able to feed and care for their children, or themselves, if they leave. Take a look at these estimated national averages: - [Farm Credit Services Awards Bright Horizons](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/05/farm-credit-services-awards-bright-horizons/) - Farm Credit Services of America awarded Bright Horizons a $2,000 grant to purchase food for our shelter in Norfolk and in O'Neill. Farm Credit Services of America started the grant program in 2013 and have awarded 394 grants so far. Thank you for all your support! Pictured are Holly Drueke, Katie Williamson, Amanda Schluns, - [Horses Unlimited 4-H Club](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/04/horses-unlimited-4-h-club/) - The Horses Unlimited 4-H Club has been making Easter Baskets for the last 10 years, and donating the baskets to Bright Horizons to hand out to the kids of the families that we serve. Pictured (L-R Front to Back) Jessica Green, Kathleen Larby, Tyler Larby, Ashley Larby, and Lindy Woita Thank You!! We appreciate all - [Lundy Bancroft By: Amanda Wallace](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/03/lundy-bancroft-by-amanda-wallace/) - . My first few weeks on the job back in 2008, I attended a conference in Kearney, Nebraska where I heard Lundy Bancroft speak. I had no previous experience in being an advocate, other than witnessing, what I would have then called dysfunctional relationships amongst myself, family and friends. After listening to Lundy present, - [Executive Director Receives Award](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/03/executive-director-receives-award/) - Bright Horizons Executive Director Linda Olson was named the 2015 individual recipient of the Dr. Richard Raymond Public Health Champion Award at the North Central District Health Department Annual Banquet on Friday March 20. Linda started working as a volunteer in the O’Neill Office in July of 1997. She was hired as a part-time advocate in July - [Can Abusers Change?](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/03/can-abusers-change/) - It’s a hotly debated topic with no easy answer. Can people change? Sure, we all change as we mature and grow older. And, we even change our unhealthy addictions, like drinking too much or doing drugs. But when it comes to abusers, the question seems to be more weighted. Even if he says he can - [Local Girl Scout Troop Donates to Bright Horizons!](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/03/local-girl-scout-troop-donates-to-bright-horizons/) - Caroline Velder from O'Neill Girl Scout Troop 183 worked on the project Breathe and she helped to make plant baskets for local businesses. She donated this one to Bright Horizons. This troop is made up of girls in the 6th, 7th and 8th grade. - [](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/02/1168/) - Staying Strong After Leaving the Shelter Why some survivors consider returning to an abusive partner August 27, 2014 By domesticshelters.org A domestic violence shelter can be a place survivors find safety from an abusive relationship, as well as a place where they can begin to plan for a healthier future. But, like any safe - [](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/02/1163/) - Madison County’s Coordinated Response Team is organizing Project Helping Hands, a resource fair with a variety of different agencies in one location for the convenience of the individuals in the surrounding communities. Many times a person may be in need of more than one service, our primary goal by having the resource fair is to - [herbergers community days](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/02/herbergers-community-days-2/) - Get your Herbergers coupon book today! Call or stop in to our Norfolk Bright Horizons office. We thank you for your support - [Bright Horizons Employees Attend National Training](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/02/bright-horizons-employees-attend-national-training/) - National Training on St. Pete’s Beach Katie Williamson, Criminal Justice Liaison in O’Neill The snow was up to my knees as I opened up my front door to head for sunny Florida. Emily, the Volunteer Outreach Coordinator in Norfolk, and I were fortunate enough to attend the National Training Institute on Protection Order Practices for - [Avera-St. Anthony's Donates to Bright Horizons](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/01/avera-st-anthonys-donates-to-bright-horizons/) - Avera-St. Anthony’s held their annual Crazy for Cookies fund raiser in December. This event was organized by the Medical Records Department and raised $1,403 to donate to Bright Horizons. Pictured are Kelli Knox and Jenny Gartner, Chairmen for the event from Avera-St. Anthony’s, and Kristy Beard, Katie Williamson, and Linda Olson from Bright - [Steps to Safety](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/01/steps-to-safety/) - Many survivors of abusive partners file for a personal protection order, or PPO. Issued by a civil court, a PPO forbids a person from doing something, such as contacting you, coming on to your property or harassing you at work. It allows the survivor to press charges should their abuser not obey the order. While - [New Years Resolution: Help Stop Violence in 2015](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2015/01/new-years-resolution-help-stop-violence-in-2015/) - Every year, 12 million people in the U.S. become victms of intimate partner violence. Though “survivor” is the preferred term, unfortunately, it’s estimated that 1,300 people will lose their life to domestic violence each year. As you make your New Year’s Resolutions, consider the idea that you can make an impact on the issue of - [Enjoy the Holiday Season This Year By Christy Abner](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2014/12/enjoy-the-holiday-season-this-year-by-christy-abner/) - Most people experience significantly more stress during the holiday season than at any other time of the year. Our wish is that this holiday is a time of joy, and that maybe one or more of the following tips will help keep your stress manageable. *Have an attitude of gratitude-we have the power to choose - [Signs of a Violent Relationship](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2014/11/signs-of-a-violent-relationship/) - Sometimes the hardest part about getting help when you’re in an abusive relationship is recognizing that you’re in one to begin with. “Many survivors don’t realize they’re in an abusive relationship. Domestic violence is not just physical or sexual abuse. It’s any form of power and control,” says Yvette Lozano, director of intervention and emergency - [Fundamentals of Advocacy Training](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2014/11/fundamentals-of-advocacy-training/) - Fundamentals of Advocacy Training Kristy Beard; Ainsworth Program Director Have you ever had questions about what kind of training employees go through when they are hired to work for Bright Horizons? The employees of Bright Horizons are provided an extensive amount of training to ensure that we are providing the best service to the survivors - [Bright Horizons Recieves $20,000 Grant from the Mary Kay Foundation](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2014/10/bright-horizons-recieves-20000-grant-from-the-mary-kay-foundation/) - Bright Horizons RECEIVES $20,000 GRANT FROM THE MARY KAY FOUNDATION Funding to Provide Expanded Services for 131 Clients Seeking Safety from Abuse Norfolk, NE (September 22, 2014) – While domestic violence has experienced a recent boost in awareness due to recent events, women and children in Northeast and Western Nebraskaare in need of housing, resource - [From our Board President](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2014/10/from-our-board-president/) - A lot of focus has been given to domestic violence in the last several weeks because of the National Football League (NFL) indefinitely suspending Ray Rice after a video of him assaulting his wife surfaced. Now several other members have also been suspended for domestic violence and child abuse. It is way past time that - [7th Annual Women's Wellness Event](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2014/09/7th-annual-womens-wellness-event/) - By Amanda Greger Staff Writer at Holt County Independent The Ponca Tribe of Nebraska and Bright Horizons are joining forces to host the 7th annual Women's Wellness Event at the end of this month. The event will be held from 5:30 to 8:30 p.m. Thursday, Sept. 25, at the O'Neill Community Center. Numerous vendors and - [Farmers Pride and Land O'Lakes Awards Grant to Bright Horizons](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2013/12/farmers-pride-and-land-olakes-awards-grant-to-bright-horizons/) - [G.I.R.L.S. Camp](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2013/08/g-i-r-l-s-camp/) - This was another successful year at G.I.R.L.S. Camp! Almost 20 girls in each session participated in exploring perceptions and beliefs about body image and self-esteem. The day was divided into two sessions of different age groups of 8-12 year olds and 13-16 year olds. The camp was dedicated to helping girls embrace their positive qualities - [Stand for the Silent](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2013/05/stand-for-the-silent/) - On May 2nd, 2013 our group BRAVO participated in Nebraska Stand for The Silent by launching our photo project. We hoped that this would encourage other students to stand up against bullying. The people who got involved in this project were very excited and were glad to help. Sadly there were quite a few people - [Compassion Fatigue and Fostering Resilience](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2013/04/compassion-fatigue-and-fostering-resilience/) - I listened in on the Compassion Fatigue and Fostering Resilience webinar. The webinar was very informitve and helpful! This disorder manifests itself in a combination of physical, emotional, and spiritual depletion. Two forms of compassion fatigue are Vicarious Trauma and Burnout. Individuals at the highest risk level of contracting the disorder are people who have - [More than 64,000 Victims of Domestic Violence Served in just One Day](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2013/03/more-than-64000-victims-of-domestic-violence-served-in-just-one-day/) - Over 10,000 requests went unmet in that same day due to lack of funds In just one 24-hour period, local domestic violence programs across the country provided help and safety to 64,324 adults and children who were victims of domestic violence. Survivors were given a safe place to stay and resources to escape violence - [Philanthropy at work: Local farmer supports Holt County through America’s Farmers Grow CommunitiesSM](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2013/03/philanthropy-at-work-local-farmer-supports-holt-county-through-americas-farmers-grow-communitiessm/) - Drought stricken farmers and rural communities receive double funding O’NEILL, Neb. (Feb. 27, 2013) - O'Neill Area Special Olympics and Bright Horizons will now be able to better serve the community thanks to the support of local farmer, Tim Wells, and America’s Farmers Grow Communities. Sponsored by the Monsanto Fund, which is the philanthropic arm - [Outreach in Madison](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2013/03/outreach-in-madison/) - For the past several months I have been at Tyson Fresh Foods in Madison, NE. As the Bilingual Advocate for Bright Horizons reaching out to Team members at Tyson is very important. I want them to be informed about our services and the services in their community. I always have a great outcome whether they - [Art of Prevention](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2013/02/art-of-prevention/) - In honor of Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month, BRAVO (bullying recognition and anti-violence organization) of O’Neill painted the windows at Bright Horizons. Several BRAVO members got together after school. They began searching for images that they wanted to use to represent taking a stand against dating violence in their community. In a short time this - [Statement from the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence on the Passage of the Violence Against Women Act Reauthorization of 2013](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2013/02/statement-from-the-national-coalition-against-domestic-violence-on-the-passage-of-the-violence-against-women-act-reauthorization-of-2013/) - The National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV) applauds the Senate for working in a bipartisan manner to pass the Violence Against Women Act Reauthorization of 2013, S. 47. The Senate bill incorporates input gathered from more than 2,000 victim advocacy groups, service providers and criminal justice professionals. We are pleased that the bill allocates critical - [Presentation Given to Wayne State College Students](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2013/02/presentation-given-to-wayne-state-college-student/) - Education is an important service that Bright Horizons provides. Through education and outreach our agency can continue to communicate to others about what domestic violence is and how our agency can help serve victims. Recently a presentation was given to a Human Services class at Wayne State College. Along with one of our volunteers, Angie - [Stalking: Know it...Name it...Do something about it](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2013/02/stalking-know-it-name-it-do-something-about-it/) - Know it: Stalking is any pattern of repeated and unwanted attention, harassment, contact, or any other behavior directed at a specific person that causes that person to feel fear. Name it: Most stalkers are someone the person knows, not a stranger. If the actions seem over the top, they probably are, tell someone about it. - [Bruizin' Bettys Honor Bright Horizons at Roller Derby](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2013/01/805/) - The staff at Bright Horizons is always grateful for the support that we receive from the communities that we serve. In January a fun group of women supported Bright Horizons in a very unique way. On January 12th, the staff at Bright Horizons was treated to a roller derby match between northeast Nebraska’s very own - [Atkinson's Big Give](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2012/11/atkinsons-big-give/) - This fall, Atkinson residents and fans of Atkinson, participated in the inaugural Big Give Atkinson 24-hour giving event that benefitted 13 organizations and nonprofits that serve Atkinson raising $17,270. This newly formed annual initiative, launched by the Atkinson Community Foundation Fund, was a unique, high-visible promotion of personal giving designed to bring new donors and - [Adopt-A-Family is Back!](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2012/11/adopt-a-family-is-back/) - Christmas is fast approaching, and many of people begin to think about what they are going to give to their friends, family, and the person whom they drew at the office Christmas exchange! But many people embrace the spirit of Christmas and give to those who are not as fortunate as themselves. We here at - [Fifth Annual Women's Wellness Event](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2012/09/fifth-annual-womens-wellness-event/) - Don’t forget that the Women’s Wellness Event is September 20, 2012 in O’Neill. This annual event is a great way to get out and enjoy a festive atmosphere where YOU are the top priority!! Enjoy unique shopping, beauty tips, trendy jewelry, women’s accessories, health screenings, and a night filled with fun! Sample gourmet treats and - [Stand for the Silent to Visit Rural Schools in Northeast Nebraska](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2012/08/stand-for-the-silent-to-visit-rural-schools-in-northeast-nebraska/) - Stand for the Silent was started in 2010 by a group students from the Oklahoma State University- Oklahoma City Upward Bound Chapter after they heard the story of Kirk and Laura Smalley’s son, Ty Field-Smalley. At eleven years-old, Ty took his own life after being suspended from school for retaliating against a bully that had - [Sign up for the First Annual TeamMates Gala!](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2012/08/sign-up-for-the-first-annual-teammates-gala/) - TEAMMATES MENTORING PROGRAM ....One Hour A Week....Time Enough The mission of TeamMates Mentoring Program is to positively impact the world by inspiring youth to reach their full potential. Nearly 5,000 youth are being mentored by a caring adult mentor. Founded by Dr. Tom and Nancy Osborne nearly twenty years ago, TeamMates Mentoring - [Bright Horizons Staff Attended Training](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2012/06/bright-horizons-staff-attended-training/) - I was fortunate to be able to attend a one day training in Kearney on June 19th. The first half of the day focused on Coordinated Community Response Teams. Ideas were given to improve communication, teamwork and trust between agencies, and enhancing collaboration for improved victim safety and offender accountability. In the afternoon information was - [Elder Abuse Awareness Day](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2012/06/elder-abuse-awareness-day/) - This Friday, June 15, is National Elder Abuse Awareness Day. This day we want people, organizations, and agencies to bring awareness to this very important cause. A minimum of 1 in 9 of Americans over age 60 have experienced some form of elder abuse. For every case of elder abuse reported to authorities, at least - [Art for a Cause Benefits Bright Horizons](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2012/06/art-for-a-cause-benefits-bright-horizons/) - Never doubt that a small group of teens can make a big impact on a community. A group of high school students from Elkhorn Valley School formed a group called Positive Painters and submitted a community service project to the Northeast Nebraska Philanthropy Council Youth Contest. Their project was selected as one of the eight - [A Note of Appreciation](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2012/04/a-note-of-appreciation/) - Bright Horizons Events Sexual Assault Awareness Walk - [Shoe Display at Sunset Plaza](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2012/04/shoe-display-at-sunset-plaza/) - As a member of the Norfolk Council for Family Empowerment (NCFE), Bright Horizons would like to inform you of the council's upcoming awareness event. The NCFE and the Nebraska Early Learning Connections is hoping to bring awareness to Northeast Nebraska for Child Abuse Prevention Month. The two groups represent local Child Abuse Prevention Councils in - [Shop AVON for a Cause!](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2012/03/shop-avon-for-a-cause/) - To raise funds for April, Sexual Assault Awareness Month, I Amanda Wallace independent Avon sales representative will be hosting an On-line Event. I will donate 50% of my commission to Bright Horizons now until May 1st 2012. Please visit awallace0611.avonrepresentative.com and enter coupon code DENIMDAY2012. If you would like more information please contact Amanda at - [Participate in Denim Days](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2012/03/participate-in-denim-days/) - Bright Horizons would like to invite your business or organization to participate in our April Denim Days Fundraiser. April is nationally designated as Sexual Assault Awareness Month. This is Bright Horizons primary fundraiser and every little bit helps! Here are a few ways your business/organization can participate in the event: NEW IN 2012: You - [Staff Attended Speaking of the Children Training](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2012/03/staff-attended-speaking-of-the-children-training/) - On March 7th, 2012, I attended the “Speaking of Children” training by Project Harmony of Omaha, Nebraska. This is the second time I have had the fortune of attending this annual training. I was able to attend on behalf of O’Neill Family Preservation Team (Thank you). This year my morning session was instructed by Suzanna - [Words of Gratitude](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2012/03/words-of-gratitude/) - "Bright Horizons staff members are a light to many women and children who are in very dark places. They shine and guide people to a way out for a better life. It is a long journey for some. Finding your way out of a dark tunnel and into the light, it takes time to focus - [Teen Dating Violence Proclamation](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2012/02/teen-dating-violence-proclamation/) - BRAVO members with Mayor Bill Price signing a proclamation declaring that the City of O’Neill recognizes February as Teen Dating Violence Awareness and Prevention Month. Pictured above from left to right bottom row: Stephanie Nemec, Hannah Janousek, Mayor Bill Price, Tasha Lechtenberg, Kasey HoffmanFrom left to right standing: Liz Wallace, Desi Pinkerman, Elizabeth Price, - [High School Students Take a Stand Against Bullying](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2012/02/high-school-students-take-a-stand-against-bullying/) - BPG (Bully Prevention Group) has been very busy throughout the year trying to accomplish our goal of preventing bullying around our high school. This group was started by four students who thought that bullying was a very big issue in the small town of O’Neill, NE. This year has been our most active year, and - [January is Stalking Awareness Month](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2012/01/january-is-stalking-awareness-month/) - January is National Stalking Awareness Month, a time to focus on a crime that affects 3.4 million victims a year. This year’s theme—“Stalking: Know It. Name It. Stop It.”—challenges the nation to fight this dangerous crime by learning more about it. Stalking is a crime in all 50 states and the District of Columbia, - [Bright Horizons Recieves $20,000 from Mary Kay Foundation](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2011/12/bright-horizons-recieves-20000-from-mary-kay-foundation/) - Mary Kay shelter grant program to help many of the 61,000 domestic violence survivors assisted each day in the United States Bright Horizons has been chosen to receive a $20,000 grant from The Mary Kay Foundation as part of the organization’s annual $3 million national domestic violence grant program. Bright Horizons is one of - [31 Ways to continue Domestic Violence Awareness](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2011/11/31-ways-to-continue-domestic-violence-awareness/) - Even though Domestic Violence Awareness Month is over, it is still important to continue the awareness of the issue. Raising awareness can be as simple as posting statistics and information about domestic violence on your Facebook, Twitter, or blog page! Following are 31 ways we encourage you to “Take a Stand. Let your Voice be - [Stewards of Children: Child Sexual Abuse Prevention Training](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2011/10/stewards-of-children-child-sexual-abuse-prevention-training/) - Bright Horizons will host Darkness to Light's Stewards of Children Child Sexual Abuse Prevention Training Tuesday, October 18th from 6PM to 8:30PM at the Northeast Community College Lifelong Learning Center Statistics suggest that 1 in 4 girls and 1 in 6 boys will be sexually abused by the age of 18. Ninety percent of - [Silent Witnesses](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2011/10/silent-witnesses/) - In 1990, a group of women in Minnesota who were upset with the growing number of women being murdered by their partners started what is now called The Silent Witnesses. These being free-standing, life-size red wooden figures with each one bearing the name of a woman whose life ended violently at the hands of a - ["In My Daughter's Name" Production](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2011/10/in-my-daughters-name-production/) - In the month of October, Bright Horizons will be celebrating their 35th anniversary! We are hosting a staged reading titled “In My Daughter's Name.” This play takes a very personal look at domestic violence. Amanda Thomas, the daughter referred to in the title, was 27 years old when she was murdered by her ex-boyfriend and - [Clothesline Project](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2011/10/clothesline-project/) - The Clothesline Project is a visual display that bears witness to the violence against women. During the public display, a clothesline is hung with shirts. Each shirt is decorated to represent a particular woman’s experience, by the survivor herself or by someone who cares about her. The concept is simple - let each woman tell - [Diaper Drive](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2011/09/diaper-drive/) - Did you know... Diapers average a cost of $100 per month (babies need 8-12 diapers/day) No public assistance covers the cost of diapers including Food Stamps Disposable diapers are required by all day cares Help us provide diapers for children of our clients during the entire month of September! If you want to participate in - [Women's Wellness Event](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2011/09/womens-wellness-event/) - Our 4th Annual Women’s Wellness Event will be held September 22, 2011 from 4:30 – 8:30 pm at the Knights of Columbus Hall in O’Neill. This year Delores Ruzicka and Jolene Lichty will be our guest speakers. Delores will speak at 4:30 with a repeat session at 6:30. Jolene will speak at 5:30 with a - [Staff Retreat](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2011/07/staff-retreat/) - On June 29th the Bright Horizons staff attended a retreat at the new restaurant in Norfolk, Barnstormers. - [DC Conference](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2011/07/dc-conference/) - June 20th- 22nd I and 4 other Bright Horizons staff members attended the 2011 National Conference hosted by the National Center for Victims of Crime. - [Prevention Summit 2011](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2011/07/prevention-summit-2011/) - A couple weeks ago I attended the Region VII Prevention Conference in Kansas City, MO called “Preventing Sexual & Intimate Partner Violence Before it Begins”. - [Survivor's Poem](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2011/07/survivors-poem/) - The night we were wed, I gave him my heart… He promised to LOVE ‘til “death do us part.” That meant he would desire me and want me near, He would be affectionate and passionate and hold me dear. He would cherish me and appreciate me ‘til my last day on earth. (I had yet - [Volunteer Spotlights](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2011/03/success-story-021/) - O’Neill Volunteer The O’Neill Bright Horizons staff would like to shine the spotlight on Mary Ann Babutzke. Mary Ann has been a volunteer with us through the Experience Works program since May of 2010. She is a huge asset to us as she keeps our office and donation rooms well maintained! For all that she - [Dating Violence Discussion](https://brighthorizonsne.org/2011/03/dating-violence-roundtable/) - Gina Clyde, Program Director at Bright Horizons in Norfolk, recently attended a roundtable discussion on teen dating violence, sexual assault, and related youth violence, hosted by Vice President Biden’s office in Washington D.C. 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Your participation helps Bright Horizons to raise funds for ## Venues - [BLACK COW FAT PIG](https://brighthorizonsne.org/venue/black-cow-fat-pig/) - [Virtual](https://brighthorizonsne.org/venue/virtual/) - [District Event Center](https://brighthorizonsne.org/venue/district-event-center/) - [Canyon Creek](https://brighthorizonsne.org/venue/canyon-creek/) - [Central Park Norfolk](https://brighthorizonsne.org/venue/central-park-norfolk/) - [B&B Cycles Inc.](https://brighthorizonsne.org/venue/bb-cycles-inc/) - [No](https://brighthorizonsne.org/venue/no/) - [Our Savior Lutheran Church](https://brighthorizonsne.org/venue/our-savior-lutheran-church/) - [Bright Horizons](https://brighthorizonsne.org/venue/bright-horizons/) - [](https://brighthorizonsne.org/venue/3244/) - [](https://brighthorizonsne.org/venue/3241/) - [St. John's Lutheran Church](https://brighthorizonsne.org/venue/st-johns-lutheran-church/) - [Norfolk Senior High School](https://brighthorizonsne.org/venue/norfolk-senior-high-school/) - [O'Neill High School Track](https://brighthorizonsne.org/venue/oneill-high-school-track/) - [Ainsworth Elks Lodge](https://brighthorizonsne.org/venue/ainsworth-elks-lodge/) - [Sunset Plaza Mall](https://brighthorizonsne.org/venue/sunset-plaza-mall/) - [sunset Plaza](https://brighthorizonsne.org/venue/sunset-plaza/) - [Bank of the West Parking Lot](https://brighthorizonsne.org/venue/bank-of-the-west-parking-lot/) - [O'Neill Community Center](https://brighthorizonsne.org/venue/oneill-community-center/) - [South Campus](https://brighthorizonsne.org/venue/south-campus/) ## Organizers - [Bright Horizons](https://brighthorizonsne.org/organizer/bright-horizons/) - [B&B Cycle Inc.](https://brighthorizonsne.org/organizer/bb-cycle-inc/) - [Kathryn](https://brighthorizonsne.org/organizer/kathryn/) - [Kathryn](https://brighthorizonsne.org/organizer/kathryn-2/) - [Kimberly Walsh- O'Neill Criminal Justice Liaiason & Incarcerated Suvivor Advocate](https://brighthorizonsne.org/organizer/kimberly-walsh-oneill-criminal-justice-liaiason-incarcerated-suvivor-advocate-2/) - [Kimberly Walsh- O'Neill Criminal Justice Liaiason & Incarcerated Suvivor Advocate](https://brighthorizonsne.org/organizer/kimberly-walsh-oneill-criminal-justice-liaiason-incarcerated-suvivor-advocate/) - [Jennifer Sorrells Family](https://brighthorizonsne.org/organizer/jennifer-sorrells-family/) - [Central Nebraska Community Action Partership, Inc.](https://brighthorizonsne.org/organizer/central-nebraska-community-action-partership-inc/) - [Ainsworth Family Clinic](https://brighthorizonsne.org/organizer/ainsworth-family-clinic/) - [Brown County Hospital](https://brighthorizonsne.org/organizer/brown-county-hospital/) - [Ponca Tribe of Nebraska](https://brighthorizonsne.org/organizer/ponca-tribe-of-nebraska/) ## Events - [Bright Bar Sales](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/bright-bar-sales/) - [Victory Strides](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/victory-strides/) - Pʟᴇᴀsᴇ ᴊᴏɪɴ Bʀɪɢʜᴛ Hᴏʀɪᴢᴏɴs ᴀɴᴅ ʜᴇʟᴘ STOMP OUT Dᴏᴍᴇsᴛɪᴄ Vɪᴏʟᴇɴᴄᴇ! Wᴇ ᴀʀᴇ ʜᴏsᴛɪɴɢ ᴀ ᴠɪʀᴛᴜᴀʟ ʀᴜɴ/ᴡᴀʟᴋ ᴇᴠᴇɴᴛ ᴛʜʀᴏᴜɢʜᴏᴜᴛ ᴛʜᴇ ᴇɴᴛɪʀᴇ ᴍᴏɴᴛʜ ᴏғ Oᴄᴛᴏʙᴇʀ! Pʀɪᴢᴇs ғᴏʀ 1sᴛ, 2ɴᴅ, ᴀɴᴅ 3ʀᴅ ᴘʟᴀᴄᴇ ᴡɪʟʟ ʙᴇ ᴀᴡᴀʀᴅᴇᴅ ᴛᴏ ᴛʜᴇ ʀᴜɴɴᴇʀ/ᴡᴀʟᴋᴇʀ ᴡɪᴛʜ ᴛʜᴇ ᴍᴏsᴛ ᴍɪʟᴇs! 𝑅𝑒𝑔𝑖𝑠𝑡𝑟𝑎𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛 𝑖𝑠 𝑜𝑛𝑙𝑦 $20 https://www.raceentry.com/victory-strides/race-information Rᴇɢɪsᴛᴇʀ ʙʏ Sᴇᴘᴛᴇᴍʙᴇʀ 30ᴛʜ, 2025 ғᴏʀ ᴀ ᴛ-sʜɪʀᴛ. T-sʜɪʀᴛs ᴡɪʟʟ - [Trauma Healing Yoga](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/healing-yoga/2022-08-10/) - [Family Violence Summit](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/family-violence-summit/2023-04-05/) - [Teen Outreach Group](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/teen-outreach-group-6/) - [Teen Outreach Group](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/teen-outreach-group-5/) - [Teen Outreach Group](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/teen-outreach-group-4/) - [Family Outreach Group](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/family-outreach-group-3/) - [Family Outreach Group](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/family-outreach-group-2/) - [Family Outreach Group](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/family-outreach-group/) - [English Speaking Group](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/english-speaking-group/2023-03-09/) - [English Speaking Support Group with Children's Group](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/english-speaking-support-group-with-childrens-group/2023-03-13/) - [Spanish Speaking Support Group with Children's Group](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/spanish-speaking-support-group-with-childrens-group/2023-03-13/) - [Family Support Group](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/family-support-group-3/) - [Family Support Group](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/family-support-group-2/) - [Family Support Group](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/family-support-group/) - [O'Neill Chamber Coffee](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/bright-horizons-chamber-coffee/) - [Teen Outreach Group](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/teen-outreach-group-3/) - [Teen Outreach Group](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/teen-outreach-group-2/) - [Teen Outreach Group](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/teen-outreach-group/2022-09-25/) - [](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/6748/) - Please join us for Bright Horizon’s Big Give Happy Hour! We will wrap up the Big Give on May 24th from 5:00-7:00 at Black Cow Fat Pig in Norfolk. We are providing appetizers, a signature drink, a cash bar, and live music by Will Hutchinson! Raffle items will be offered as well! Help us celebrate - [Healing Yoga](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/yoga-for-trauma-survivors-2022-01-26/) - [Healing Yoga](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/yoga-for-trauma-survivors/2022-01-19/) - [Norfolk's Galentine Event](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/norfolks-galentine-event/) - Join us for a girls evening of shopping, hors d'oeuvers, and a cash bar! Vendors that will be at this event are Boutique 29eleven Route 35 boutique The Wine Cellar Just Craftin' Around Bre's Kids Boutique Sleepyy Goods Nancy Lous Tadoo Tadaa - [Ainsworth Galentines Event](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/ainsworth-galentines-event/) - Sip & Shop There will be wine and appetizers Home-based businesses set up for anyone to shop - [Teen Dating Violence Awareness Day](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/teen-dating-violence-awareness-day/) - loveisrespect.org announces their 2022 Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month Theme. This year is going to be Talk About It. Talk About It is a call to action for young people and those who support them to engage in meaningful conversations about healthy relationships and navigate what may be unhealthy or even abusive. The national color - [Spanish Domestic Violence Support Group](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/spanish-domestic-violence-support-group-2/2022-01-11/) - [Domestic Violence Support Group](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/domestic-violence-support-group-4/2022-01-11/) - [Domestic Violence Support Group](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/domestic-violence-support-group-3/2022-01-06/) - [2021 O'Neill Chamber Coffee](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/2021-oneill-chamber-coffee/) - [Paint with Purpose](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/paint-with-purpose/) - October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Together we can help bring an end to domestic violence. Only $35 per person. Please call 402-382-5676 to register. Specialty coffees will be available for purchase that evening. - [Project Homeless Connect-Norfolk](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/project-homeless-connect-norfolk-2/) - Project Homeless Connect is a one-day, one-stop event where individuals and families who are homeless or near homeless are able to receive a wide variety of immediate, on-site services and support for unmet needs for FREE. - [Ainsworth Open House](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/ainsworth-open-house/) - [National Night Out](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/national-night-out/) - August 3rd, 2021 in Central Park from 6 pm - 8 pm Norfolk Police Department, Nebraska State Patrol, along with agencies throughout the Norfolk Community will be in attendance to provide information about their agencies. National Night Out enhances the relationship between neighbors and public safety officials by providing the opportunity to come together in - [B&B Cycle's 60th Anniversary Benefit Ride](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/bb-cycles-60th-anniversary-benefit-ride/) - B&B Cycle has been in business for 60 years and is excited to celebrate with all our great customers! Bring out your bike, hot rod, or just your daily driver and go on a ride with the local Christian Motorcyclists Association. $15/person with ALL proceeds going towards Bright Horizons. Bike blessing at 10:00 AM clutches - [Spanish Domestic Violence Support Group](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/spanish-domestic-violence-support-group/2021-07-19/) - [Domestic Violence Support Group](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/domestic-violence-support-group-2/2021-07-22/) - [Domestic Violence Support Group](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/domestic-violence-support-group/2021-07-26/) - [2021 DV Counts](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/2021-dv-counts/) - [Antelope County CCRT](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/antelope-county-ccrt/) - [Handcuffs VS Hoses](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/handcuffs-vs-hoses-2/) - [Boyd Holt CCRT](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/boyd-holt-ccrt/) - 128 N 6th St, O'Neill, NE 68763 - [Norfolk Area Big Give](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/norfolk-area-big-give-2/) - [Volunteer Appreciation Week](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/volunteer-appreciation-week/) - [Brown, Rock, & Keya Paha CRT](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/brown-rock-keya-paha-crt/) - [NO MORE Week](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/no-more-week/) - NO MORE’s eighth annual NO MORE Week is March 7-13, 2021. Our goal is to inspire everyone to make a change to help create a culture of safety, equality, and respect in our communities. - [Adopt a Family](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/adopt-a-family-3/) - [VIRTUAL RUN/WALK/BIKE/Etc. 3.16 Miles in memory of Hailey and All Victims of Domestic Violence](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/virtual-run-walk-bike-etc-3-16-miles-in-memory-of-hailey-and-all-victims-of-domestic-violence/) - . For all the runners, joggers, walkers, bikers, etc. here is what we can do to raise awareness and funds for ending domestic violence and to show our support for Hailey’s son and family. Please walk/jog/run/bike/etc. at your favorite place. Our community lost Hailey on 7/24/2020 to domestic violence (DV.) Hailey’s life was tragically taken - [Handcuffs vs. Hoses](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/handcuffs-vs-hoses/) - [Norfolk Area Big Give](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/norfolk-area-big-give/) - Norfolk Area Big Give is a 24-hour period of giving where Norfolk area supporters are invited to give back to their favorite local charities and educate themselves on other non-profits in our community. The goal of this community-wide giving event is to match Norfolk area supporters' passions and generosity with local nonprofit organizations already doing - [Denim Days](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/denim-days-3/) - In 2019 Bright Horizons provided services to 1299 individuals and 7678 shelter beds to survivors of domestic violence and sexual assault in our community. Go casual for a cause… April 2020 is Denim Days! The staff at Bright Horizons want to raise awareness about sexual assault. During the month of April please consider - [Women's Wellness Event](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/womens-wellness-event/) - Come join us on September 25th for our 12th annual Women's Wellness Event! Enjoy food and drinks while you are checking out the 30+ vendors that will be there. - [9th Annual Garage Sale](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/9th-annual-garage-sale/) - 9th Annual Garage Sale - A fundraiser for Bright Horizons! July 25th 7am - 5pm St. John’s Lutheran Church 1300 W Benjamin Ave We need your gently used:  Furniture  Appliances  Electronics  Household Items  Toys  Children’s clothing (No Adult Clothing Please) Drop off your donations at St. John’s Lutheran Church - [Project Homeless Connect](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/project-homeless-connect/) - Project Homeless Connect Norfolk is a one-day, one-stop event where individuals in need can access a multitude of service providers all under one roof for FREE. What normally would take months to accomplish can be completed in one day. From medical and dental providers to mental health practitioners, to housing assistance programs, our goal is - [Thrivent Choice Dollars](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/thrivent-choice-dollars/) - Give thanks. Direct Thrivent Choice Dollars®. Thrivent Choice® can have a tremendous impact on an organization. Eligible Thrivent Financial members: Show your appreciation for Bright Horizons by directing Choice Dollars. The individual recommendations you make through Choice Dollars directions can make a profound impact. Find out how by clicking the link below! https://www.thrivent.com/offers/financial-products-and-services-2.html?utm_source=sem&utm_campaign=brand&utm_medium=google&utm_term=thrivent_financial&utm_goal=fr&s_kwcid=AL!6300!3!275322427645!e!!g!!thrivent&gclid=EAIaIQobChMIxpbx4OTw4AIV3bXACh2wDAnOEAAYAiAAEgL3ifD_BwE Thrivent - [Denim Days](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/denim-days-2/) - Throughout the month of April we will be participating in Denim Days for Sexual Assault Awareness Month! This unique event raises funds to support Bright Horizons and survivors of sexual assault. See the flyer below for more information on how to sign up! Denim Days Flyer - [Winter Coat Drive](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/winter-coat-drive/) - Bright Horizons is in need of new gloves, scarfs, hats and coats to keep the clients we serve warm this winter! Drop Off Locations: 601 E Norfolk Ave 402-379-2026 - Norfolk 318 E Douglas St. 402-336-1774 - O'Neill 938 E Zero St. 402-382-5676 - Ainsworth We take donations M - F 9am - 5pm - [Adopt A Family](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/adopt-a-family-2/) - BRIGHT HORIZONS IS LOOKING FOR SPONSORS TO “ADOPT A FAMILY” FOR CHRISTMAS. WE WILL PROVIDE YOU OR YOUR ORGANIZATION WITH A WISH LIST OF ITEMS THE FAMILY NEEDS. WE ASK THAT ALL GIFTS ARE DROPPED OFF UNWRAPPED BY DECEMBER 10TH. THE GOAL IS TO SHARE SOME OF OUR MANY BLESSINGS WITH THOSE LESS FORTUNATE. INDIVIDUALS, COUPLES, - [National Wear Purple Day](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/national-wear-purple-day/) - [Candlelight Vigil](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/candlelight-vigil/) - A Domestic Violence Candlelight Vigil will be held at 7 P.M. Tuesday October 9th, 2018 in Ainsworth between the Public Library and Seller’s Museum. For information or to volunteer call Elaine Ginter @ 402-382-5676. - [Candlelight Vigil](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/candlelight-vigil-2/) - A Domestic Violence Candlelight Vigil will be held at 7 P.M. Thursday October 11th, 2018 at Memory Lane Park-Main Street in Bassett. For information or to volunteer call Elaine Ginter @ 402-382-5676. - [Diaper Drive](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/diaper-drive/) - See our flyer for more information:Diaper Drive Flyer 2018 Did you know? Diapers average a cost of $100 per month (babies need 8-12 diapers/day) No public assistance covers the cost of diapers & wipes, including Food Stamps Disposable diapers are required by daycares Diapers & baby wipes will be collected during the Entire - [Women's Wellness Event 2018](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/womens-wellness-event-2018/) - Our 11th Annual Women's Wellness Event is set for Thursday, September 27th, 2018. Come enjoy a great evening full of vendors, food, and refreshments! If you're interested in having a booth at our event, email oneillprogramdirector@brighthorizonsne.org for a registration form! - [Jennifer's Memorial Walk 2018](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/jennifers-memorial-walk-2018/) - [Bright Horizons 8th Annual Garage Sale](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/bright-horizons-8th-annual-garage-sale/) - Please see our flyer below for more information! - [Project Homeless Connect Norfolk](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/project-homeless-connect-norfolk/) - About Our Event Project Homeless Connect Norfolk is a one-day, one-stop event where individuals in need can access a multitude of service providers all under one roof. What normally would take months to accomplish can be completed in one day. From medical and dental providers to mental health practitioners, to housing assistance programs, our goal is - [People Helping People Community Resource Fair](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/people-helping-people-community-resource/) - [9th Annual Awareness Walk](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/9th-annual-awareness-walk/) - Register by filling out our 2018 Walk Flyer and mailing in or register online below! April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month. April 26th we will be hosting our 9th Annual Awareness Walk. The campaign theme is "Start by Believing." When someone tells you they were raped or sexually assaulted, knowing how to respond is - [Denim Days](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/denim-days/) - Join us for this once a year fundraiser for a great cause. Denim Days 2018 is a great way to use casual dress days to raise money for a great cause all through the month of April. It’s a great incentive for staff but there's many ways to contribute. In past years, several businesses got - [Adopt a Family](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/adopt-a-family/) - BLESS FAMILIES IN NEED THIS HOLIDAY Bright Horizons is looking for sponsors to Adopt a Family for Christmas. We will provide you or your organization with a wish list of items. We ask that all gifts are dropped off unwrapped by December 11th, 2017 Please contact your nearest office. Norfolk-Christy 402.379.2026 O'Neill-Amanda 402.336.1774 Ainsworth-Kristy 402.382.5676 - [Diapers & Wipes Drive](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/diaperdrive/) - Diapers & baby wipes will be collected during the Entire month of SEPTEMBER. Help us provide diapers and wipes for all children in our communities! We are especially in need of Sizes 4, 5, and 6. - [Ribbon Tie Event](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/ribbon/) - Tie a purple ribbon and help raise awareness! - [Ladies Night Out](https://brighthorizonsne.org/event/ladiesnightout/) - The 10th Annual Women’s Wellness Event. Come And Enjoy Appetizers, Vendors, & More ## Portfolio - [Flawed Hero Bumper](https://brighthorizonsne.org/portfolio-items/flawed-hero-bumper/) - This sermon video is from Traders Point Church posted on their Vimeo page. Traders Point is a gospel-centered church that gathers for worship, studies God’s Word, and impacts communities through service in Indianapolis and around the world. Weekend worship services are at 5 p.m. on Saturday, and 9 and 11 a.m. on Sunday. To find out - [Humble & Hungry](https://brighthorizonsne.org/portfolio-items/humble-hungry-bumper/) - This sermon video is from Traders Point Church posted on their Vimeo page. Traders Point is a gospel-centered church that gathers for worship, studies God’s Word, and impacts communities through service in Indianapolis and around the world. Weekend worship services are at 5 p.m. on Saturday, and 9 and 11 a.m. on Sunday. To find out - [Easter 2015 Bumper](https://brighthorizonsne.org/portfolio-items/easter-2015-bumper/) - This sermon video is from Traders Point Church posted on their Vimeo page. Traders Point is a gospel-centered church that gathers for worship, studies God’s Word, and impacts communities through service in Indianapolis and around the world. Weekend worship services are at 5 p.m. on Saturday, and 9 and 11 a.m. on Sunday. To find out - [Gospel of John](https://brighthorizonsne.org/portfolio-items/gospel-of-john/) - This sermon video is from Traders Point Church posted on their Vimeo page. Traders Point is a gospel-centered church that gathers for worship, studies God’s Word, and impacts communities through service in Indianapolis and around the world. Weekend worship services are at 5 p.m. on Saturday, and 9 and 11 a.m. on Sunday. To find out - [Proverbs Bumper](https://brighthorizonsne.org/portfolio-items/proverbs-bumper/) - This sermon video is from Traders Point Church posted on their Vimeo page. Traders Point is a gospel-centered church that gathers for worship, studies God’s Word, and impacts communities through service in Indianapolis and around the world. Weekend worship services are at 5 p.m. on Saturday, and 9 and 11 a.m. on Sunday. To find out - [Hebrews Bumper](https://brighthorizonsne.org/portfolio-items/hebrews-bumper/) - This sermon video is from Traders Point Church posted on their Vimeo page. Traders Point is a gospel-centered church that gathers for worship, studies God’s Word, and impacts communities through service in Indianapolis and around the world. Weekend worship services are at 5 p.m. on Saturday, and 9 and 11 a.m. on Sunday. To find out ## Fusion Elements - [candybar sale](https://brighthorizonsne.org/fusion_element/candybar-sale/) - As part of the Norfolk Area Big Give, we offering you a sweet chance at winning some amazing prizes!Bars are only $5.00 with the ability to donate an extra 5 or 10 dollars.How do I get mine? PICKUP: All orders can be picked up at your nearest Bright Horizons office on May 21st, 2024. DELIVERY: - [about](https://brighthorizonsne.org/fusion_element/about/) ## Categories - [Uncategorized](https://brighthorizonsne.org/category/uncategorized/) - [Events](https://brighthorizonsne.org/category/events/) - [Ongoing Learning](https://brighthorizonsne.org/category/ongoing-learning/) - [Success Stories](https://brighthorizonsne.org/category/success-stories/) - [Volunteer Spotlight](https://brighthorizonsne.org/category/volunteer-spotlight/) - [Center News](https://brighthorizonsne.org/category/uncategorized/center-news/) - A lot of focus has been given to domestic violence in the last several weeks because of the National Football League (NFL) indefinitely suspending Ray Rice after a video of him assaulting his wife surfaced. Now several other members have also been suspended for domestic violence and child abuse. It is way past time that these issues are brought out in the open and addressed. It is disappointing that this wasn’t given the seriousness that it deserves until the video surfaced. It is important to remember that most victims of domestic violence do not have pictures, witnesses, or other legal proof. We have to listen and believe. Violence against women is not an NFL issue and of course the majority of players are not violent towards their wives, girlfriends, or children. Violence against women spans worldwide. As a country, we have to look at domestic violence as a national problem – affecting women and families of all races, cultures, and income levels. It is time that men step up and become a part of the solution. We need to move to prevent abuse by changing attitudes, changing values, and changing principles that promote a culture that tolerates domestic violence. Support for this is needed not just from the NFL, but from men in the business sector, education, government at all levels, families and individuals. It needs to begin right here in rural Nebraska. The movement to end violence against women was championed and led by women but it is time for men, ALL men, to be a part of the solution. We need more real men to stand up and lead on the field, in the locker room, in your business, in your school, and throughout your communities as champions in the movement to end all forms of violence, especially violence against women and children. October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month and this is a great time to make a commitment to support this issue and your local domestic violence and sexual assault services program, Bright Horizons. 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